"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How often should I text women before/in between dates?

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How often am I supposed to text girls in general in between dates? I know that some only text for logistics, but every time I’ve gotten with a girl I’ve always texted her. I want to text/Snapchat a girl to keep that emotional momentum going, but I also don’t wanna look clingy or low value. So on average, how often should I text them?

Another part of the problem with my dating is that I simply have no clue how to go about it like a normal person sometimes. So I’m listening to AMS and reading a few “normie” articles too. I’d just like to know what you all think.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I usually hit them up every few days but that's if she seems interested, if she seems low interest I wait a week maybe two in between.
 
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Papa_smu said:
A funny thought pops into your mind worth mentioning. If something funny happened to you during the day or night. If something extraordinary happened to you.
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Just whenever you feel like, right?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Never.

THE PHONE IS TO SET UP APPOINTMENTS ONLY. sorry for caps, but its important.

The less she knows, the better.

So just touch base with her "once" a week to set up ***another date***

Do this until "she" starts to initiate contact.
 
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