"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How often should I text women before/in between dates?

nicksaiz65

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How often am I supposed to text girls in general in between dates? I know that some only text for logistics, but every time I’ve gotten with a girl I’ve always texted her. I want to text/Snapchat a girl to keep that emotional momentum going, but I also don’t wanna look clingy or low value. So on average, how often should I text them?

Another part of the problem with my dating is that I simply have no clue how to go about it like a normal person sometimes. So I’m listening to AMS and reading a few “normie” articles too. I’d just like to know what you all think.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I usually hit them up every few days but that's if she seems interested, if she seems low interest I wait a week maybe two in between.
 

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A funny thought pops into your mind worth mentioning. If something funny happened to you during the day or night. If something extraordinary happened to you.
Just whenever you feel like, right?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Never.

THE PHONE IS TO SET UP APPOINTMENTS ONLY. sorry for caps, but its important.

The less she knows, the better.

So just touch base with her "once" a week to set up ***another date***

Do this until "she" starts to initiate contact.
 
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