I recently started talking to a girl and I already know shes into me. She keeps saying how shes gonna be visiting me (I live in the city, she lives in the suburbs) and how she wants to hang out next week when she gets back from her trip. I've made the mistake in the past of texting/calling too often to the point of their level of attraction decreasing. How often do you guys communicate with girls that you're talking to?
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How often should I text/call her?
- Thread starter duke104
- Start date
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Ideally you'll have a meaningful text conversation once or twice per day - concentrated into say 30 minutes - and then leave them wanting more. You should be the one to not reply to her last message. Then wait until the next day and let her contact you first. Never text unless it's something romantic or funny. Never "double text" or whine that they did not reply. If they freak out that you haven't replied - it's a good thing. Let them experience that tension. Occasionally take a day off and let them wonder. Also - call them on the phone (hopefully land line) when it's time to make plans. Finally, mix in some email and FB to keep it entertaining. But don't be their FB friend IMO.