"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How often do you watch porn?

How often do you watch porn?

  • Less than 1 hr / month

    Votes: 11 18.3%
  • 1 hr / week

    Votes: 17 28.3%
  • 2 - 6 hrs / week

    Votes: 13 21.7%
  • 1 hr / day

    Votes: 4 6.7%
  • 2 - 3 hrs / day

    Votes: 3 5.0%
  • More than 4 hrs / day

    Votes: 3 5.0%
  • Don't watch porn

    Votes: 9 15.0%

  • Total voters
    60

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Who Dares Win

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Few minutes everyday, sometime It puts me in a good mood to see a blonde woman with big boobs in slvtty pose.

But I tend to avoid hardcore and even more wanking which is a dangerous habit.
 

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Is sex scene in movies considered porn ?

Those things seem more aesthetic and its actresses are hotter than those of porno sh!t
 

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ScottMustaine said:
Dude, i just take one movie. Switch to ******* or anal sex scene, and jack that **** off in 5 minutes and continue with my life.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ArcBound

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I don't
 

SamTheHobit

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12 hours + per week.
 

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there's a point where watching porn becomes frustrating and I become envious.I start wanting to be that dude slamming that super sexy chick and not the one jerking off to their encounter.that said i think the less you watch the better and most normal girls won't do half the stuff you see in them scenes.Fantasy/reality has a very thick line between them
 

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ScottMustaine said:
Dude, i just take one movie. Switch to ******* or anal sex scene, and jack that **** off in 5 minutes and continue with my life.
This!
 

JoeMarron

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I've actually never gotten into porn. Not knocking the dudes that do it but I don't see the allure in watching random dudes fk random chicks..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Zarky

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I'm not sure I can quantify it by the "hour." I will watch a few minutes to "get the job done" then shut it off and go on with my day. It's not like I sit there watching it for the storyline or when I'm not getting myself off. It's purely a masturbatory facilitation device for me.

So let's say on average once or so per day, anywhere from a few minutes to several minutes each time.

wanking which is a dangerous habit.
What you might hit yourself in the eye? Not sure how masturbation can be "dangerous."
 

Who Dares Win

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I really hope those guys who chosed "more than 4hr a day" are either in the porn recording crew or workholic pornstar themselves.

Nevermind if you're government employees.
 

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Zarky said:
I'm not sure I can quantify it by the "hour." I will watch a few minutes to "get the job done" then shut it off and go on with my day. It's not like I sit there watching it for the storyline or when I'm not getting myself off. It's purely a masturbatory facilitation device for me.

So let's say on average once or so per day, anywhere from a few minutes to several minutes each time.


What you might hit yourself in the eye? Not sure how masturbation can be "dangerous."
Its dangerous when you masturbate to porn. It trains your **** to only get hard with porn and not with real women, and you end up chasing porn strictly rather than women. This not just a theory, its a proven fact.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zarky said:
I'm not sure I can quantify it by the "hour." I will watch a few minutes to "get the job done" then shut it off and go on with my day. It's not like I sit there watching it for the storyline or when I'm not getting myself off. It's purely a masturbatory facilitation device for me.

So let's say on average once or so per day, anywhere from a few minutes to several minutes each time.


What you might hit yourself in the eye? Not sure how masturbation can be "dangerous."
Some people get addicted to porn to an unhealthy extent.
 

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I watch it way too much and I think one thing it does is gets me too fixated on the visual aspect of sex, like watching a girl take her clothes off, watching her naked, etc. Which is problematic if you're in a room with a girl with the lights turned off. I figured her touching me would be enough to get me as aroused but whenever it's dark and I can't see anything, it's rather difficult.
That's just one of my theories. But essentially, as long as you don't do it too much, masturbation in moderation (like the guys above who just do it as a release for a few minutes a day) should be fine.
 

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of course I'm watching

of course I'm watching porn in a net. Sites like youporn, pornhub or xtube.zz.mu where are collected best porn movies.
 

Epimanes

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Gave up porn quite a while ago. If I need to rub one out I just think of the last session with my hot wife. Does it every time.

Porn conditions you in a bad way. I would rather read erotica than watch porn. It trains your brain to only respond to the stimulas with the hard core visuals. When your with a normal woman it makes it harder to bust your nut because you have trained yourself to only get off if it resembles the porn burned into your head.

Women need 2 things to really enjoy sex (most anyhow) and that is 1. An emotional attachment (created by kino and good conversation) and 2. Prospect of enjoyment. If one or both of those elements are missing it won't be as satisfying for either of you unless you couldn't care less of your partners feelings and your not in tune to your partners rythm.

Steer clear of porn... And you will have a much easier time with women and less expectations of their performance.

Epi
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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