"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How often do you watch porn?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Zion
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But I tend to avoid hardcore and even more wanking which is a dangerous habit.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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So let's say on average once or so per day, anywhere from a few minutes to several minutes each time.
What you might hit yourself in the eye? Not sure how masturbation can be "dangerous."
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Nevermind if you're government employees.
Its dangerous when you masturbate to porn. It trains your **** to only get hard with porn and not with real women, and you end up chasing porn strictly rather than women. This not just a theory, its a proven fact.Zarky said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That's just one of my theories. But essentially, as long as you don't do it too much, masturbation in moderation (like the guys above who just do it as a release for a few minutes a day) should be fine.
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of course I'm watching porn in a net. Sites like youporn, pornhub or xtube.zz.mu where are collected best porn movies.
Porn conditions you in a bad way. I would rather read erotica than watch porn. It trains your brain to only respond to the stimulas with the hard core visuals. When your with a normal woman it makes it harder to bust your nut because you have trained yourself to only get off if it resembles the porn burned into your head.
Women need 2 things to really enjoy sex (most anyhow) and that is 1. An emotional attachment (created by kino and good conversation) and 2. Prospect of enjoyment. If one or both of those elements are missing it won't be as satisfying for either of you unless you couldn't care less of your partners feelings and your not in tune to your partners rythm.
Steer clear of porn... And you will have a much easier time with women and less expectations of their performance.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.