"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How often do you watch porn?

How often do you watch porn?

  • Less than 1 hr / month

    Votes: 11 18.3%

  • 1 hr / week

    Votes: 17 28.3%

  • 2 - 6 hrs / week

    Votes: 13 21.7%

  • 1 hr / day

    Votes: 4 6.7%

  • 2 - 3 hrs / day

    Votes: 3 5.0%

  • More than 4 hrs / day

    Votes: 3 5.0%

  • Don't watch porn

    Votes: 9 15.0%
  • Total voters
    60
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Epimanes said:
Gave up porn quite a while ago. If I need to rub one out I just think of the last session with my hot wife. Does it every time.

Porn conditions you in a bad way. I would rather read erotica than watch porn. It trains your brain to only respond to the stimulas with the hard core visuals. When your with a normal woman it makes it harder to bust your nut because you have trained yourself to only get off if it resembles the porn burned into your head.

Women need 2 things to really enjoy sex (most anyhow) and that is 1. An emotional attachment (created by kino and good conversation) and 2. Prospect of enjoyment. If one or both of those elements are missing it won't be as satisfying for either of you unless you couldn't care less of your partners feelings and your not in tune to your partners rythm.

Steer clear of porn... And you will have a much easier time with women and less expectations of their performance.

Epi
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Agreed. I imagine of one is watching porn that his girl made for him however this doesn't apply..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've been backing away from porn for almost a year now. I did No Fap and No Porn which were extremely beneficial, and ever since then porn just does not excite me anymore. I'll go weeks without it, every couple weeks or so I test the waters with a few favorite sites. Hardcore porn does not even get me slightly aroused now. It used to be I was at a 9 or 10 arousal level after watching some hot clips, but now it's like a 1, if that. I may as well be watching PBS.

I find I get more aroused from thinking about sex with my gf than I do with porn of any level. I think after years of over-saturation, watching other people have sex is just not that exciting anymore. Plus I have moral issues with it, like why am I watching some skank get jizzed on when I have a gorgeous, untouched virgin who will happily take me anyway I please? Dat ain't right.
 
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