"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How often do you make plans with a girl

BJP1991

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Seen this girl twice now - seems to be flowing pretty well. We got drinks the first date and did the same on the second, but ended up back at my place and hooked up.

In the first month or so, how often do you call/text a girl to see her? She said she prefers calling, and said she liked that I called instead of texted her to setup our second date.

Once a week until she starts reaching out in between? Pros/cons?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oldmanofthesea

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I usually aim for once a week, and only to set a date.

Be careful with her telling you to call instead of texting. I'd mix it up a bit.
 

Rainman4707

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Depends on the girl. My current plate i see once a week for sex.
If i thought it could go somewhere with a girl then i might increase the amount of time i see her and the effort i put in.
 
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