How often do you get Second Dates?

[SW15]

1st dates from OLD sites and apps will have a much lower success rate of leading to 2nd/further dates compared to women that you've met in person. Ghosting, flaking, etc. will be fairly common place even before ever meeting in person.

If a person wants 2nd dates and extended relationships, other options for meeting women are better than the swipe apps.

 

[bat soup]

About half my first dates have led to further meetings. I'm curious what you are experiencing and if I need to tweak my first date conversations to improve my chances of the second. A benchmark if you will

There's no point meeting a second time unless there's chemistry on the first.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

There's no point meeting a second time unless there's chemistry on the first.

Some women expect perfect synchronization/performance on the first date and next the guy immediately lol.

 

[Gamisch]

Kinda surprised to read these percentages. I basically always get a second date, and 2nd = banging. ( If it didn't happen in the 1st date already).

I have no idea how anyone gets remotely close to a 50% or 80% 2nd date rate.

I assume if she meets me she wants to bang. Maybe it's more of a vibe kinda thing? If you dknt mind spending the time and money it shouldn't really matter imo.