"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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How often do you get Second Dates?

SW15

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sangheilios said:
1st dates from OLD sites and apps will have a much lower success rate of leading to 2nd/further dates compared to women that you've met in person. Ghosting, flaking, etc. will be fairly common place even before ever meeting in person.
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If a person wants 2nd dates and extended relationships, other options for meeting women are better than the swipe apps.
 

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Chowdah said:
About half my first dates have led to further meetings. I'm curious what you are experiencing and if I need to tweak my first date conversations to improve my chances of the second. A benchmark if you will
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There's no point meeting a second time unless there's chemistry on the first.
 
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Kinda surprised to read these percentages. I basically always get a second date, and 2nd = banging. ( If it didn't happen in the 1st date already).

SW15 said:
I have no idea how anyone gets remotely close to a 50% or 80% 2nd date rate.
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I assume if she meets me she wants to bang. Maybe it's more of a vibe kinda thing? If you dknt mind spending the time and money it shouldn't really matter imo.
 
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