How Often Do Women Approach You?

[bigneil]

Here are my stats at getting approached, if I am in a lounge area wearing a tight-fitted button-down shirt with a muscular physique, at 6'1":

• 20% bf, 215 lbs.: Not at all
• 15% bf, 202-5 lbs.: Once every 2 or 3 times I go out.
• 10%, 192 lbs.: 2-3 times every time I go out.

Material difference in accordance with body fat level.

Sad but true as we head out of winter and I'm sitting at 21%.

 

[Moy_1974]

Not once in all of my 41 years. I feel cheated!!!!

 

[teebear]

I'm pretty lucky, I suppose. Women approach me all the time, especially when I go to bars. I didn't have to lift a finger or buy a single drink last Friday night yet I still went home with a woman.

I say lucky because I'm not especially good looking. I'm only 5'8" and I'm going to be 50 years old in a few months. It's not all luck, though.

What DOES work for me? Being in good shape and dressing well. It's THAT simple. I have also learned to keep my mouth shut. Texting and talking too much just gets me in trouble.

 

[mangotot]

I was with some acquaintances in some lower end bar. There was a bottle of champagne on the table. A group of 3 set of girls came over straight away because they wanted to drink champagne. The guys lapped up their attention. The women were there for half an hour until the alcohol was gone. I did not interject since I did not pay for the drink and I only knew the guys loosely. Except with a shake of the head to myself.

 

[mangotot]

I'm pretty lucky, I suppose. Women approach me all the time, especially when I go to bars. I didn't have to lift a finger or buy a single drink last Friday night yet I still went home with a woman.

I say lucky because I'm not especially good looking. I'm only 5'8" and I'm going to be 50 years old in a few months. It's not all luck, though.

What DOES work for me? Being in good shape and dressing well. It's THAT simple. I have also learned to keep my mouth shut. Texting and talking too much just gets me in trouble.

How old are these women who approach you?

 

[teebear]

How old are these women who approach you?

In bars, the women are typically in their 30's and 40's. The woman who came home with me last week was 34, she said.

I love it when women approach in those situations because it's virtually assured that they're DTF. I just keep my mouth shut and go with it.

I stack the odds in my favour, naturally. I don't go to clubs which are dominated by young and gorgeous twenty-somethings. I would just look old and out of place there.

I also dress sharp when I go out, aiming to be one of the top guys in the place in that regard. That makes being 5'8" less of a handicap and it tilts the field in my favour. Women absolutely notice and will blatantly check you out when you're dressed well.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

I'm curious as to what you guys think when a girl accidently "bumps" you on a crowded train, says "sorry" when grabbing her seatbelt on the plane next to you. Plausible deniability or clumsiness?