"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How Often Do Women Approach You?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I say lucky because I'm not especially good looking. I'm only 5'8" and I'm going to be 50 years old in a few months. It's not all luck, though.
What DOES work for me? Being in good shape and dressing well. It's THAT simple. I have also learned to keep my mouth shut. Texting and talking too much just gets me in trouble.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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In bars, the women are typically in their 30's and 40's. The woman who came home with me last week was 34, she said.mangotot said:
I love it when women approach in those situations because it's virtually assured that they're DTF. I just keep my mouth shut and go with it.
I stack the odds in my favour, naturally. I don't go to clubs which are dominated by young and gorgeous twenty-somethings. I would just look old and out of place there.
I also dress sharp when I go out, aiming to be one of the top guys in the place in that regard. That makes being 5'8" less of a handicap and it tilts the field in my favour. Women absolutely notice and will blatantly check you out when you're dressed well.