"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How Often Are You Approached?

How Often Do Women Approach You?

  • Never been approached by a woman

    Votes: 6 14.3%
  • Once or twice total so far

    Votes: 3 7.1%
  • Once or twice a year

    Votes: 13 31.0%
  • Once or twice a month

    Votes: 12 28.6%
  • Nearly every night I go out

    Votes: 5 11.9%
  • Several times a night

    Votes: 3 7.1%

  • Total voters
    42

-Gripz-

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Women will try and talk to me or hit on my more than usual. I'll be going to the store, or getting something to eat and the lady cashier would compliment me on my looks. I had one women who would ask for my phone number every day when I came in for lunch she also would call me her man and would literally push the other workers out of the way to make my food, lol. I've also gotten approaches when I'm sitting and doing nothing. A lady would sit down and talk to me, you could say they were being friendly but it happens a lot. Most of the time I get staring. At college a couple girls would cross my path a few times to get a good look at me while was chilling at the lounge. Also when I'm at the gym I'll get women following me around, they would workout next to me and stare. The strange thing is, I really don't think I'm anything special in the looks department.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Plutoman

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Two to three times a month. Occasionally more. Generally the girls that do are far below my standards, I don't think I've ever been just approached by anyone higher than a 5.
 

VladPatton

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Never, unless they are selling something, taking a survey, or want something else. Even if that wasn't the case, I'd be suspicious of a girl approaching. That's guy territory.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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I get approached, but not by women I'm interested in. Almost all of them are grenades or high school aged jail bait. I'm very young looking for my age. Even though I'm 32 I could easily pass for 25 which I believe is why high school girls hit on me. They want an older guy with a car and his own place, but I'm not interested. I'm above average in looks, but not a hot guy by any stretch. Most women would probably rate me a 6.5/7 out of 10.
 

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I've gotten approached by several HB 10.5's in my life...with the police in tow pointing and saying: That's the freak right there!

Be careful of chicks approaching (even the hawt ones)....with the cops, bouncers or campus security. It's not a good look on your part no matter how you try to spin it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PappyS

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Women rarely approach men. Good looking young men are more likely to be approached by homosexuals and transvestites than by real women.
 

Hustlaz Ambition

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SgtSplacker said:
This poll is flawed, because if a guy like me goes to China or Africa I will get approached every 15 minutes...
Very flawed poll indeed. A good looking black man is going to get literally ****ing stalked in area with a lot of black women. You are the HB 10 with big tits and ass in those places. You will be trying to find ways to subtly tell them hoes "do not approach me" my Guess and Ed Hardy outfits are my b!tchshields lol. But ratchet, loud women are not my thing. Every now and then though there will be one hottie in those sea of hoodrats :up: This is completely different from the white guy living in a rural setting. I imagine he may not rarely if ever get approached.

Quality of women should have been included in this poll.
 

Huffman

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Hehe but what does the poll represent? I guess on this forum there's some really cool dudes, together with alot of nerdy losers who are only just starting out.

Now I don't know if that classifies "the majority of guys" in your bet ;)
 

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Packers2010 said:
i never get approached. and i think it has to do with my posture and look when out ( body language).

i'm working on it.
Always stand tall, shoulders back, legs apart, smile, chat - open body language is inviting, happy faces are inviting, chatty people= good to talk to:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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