"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How Often Are You Approached?

How Often Do Women Approach You?

  • Never been approached by a woman

    Votes: 6 14.3%
  • Once or twice total so far

    Votes: 3 7.1%
  • Once or twice a year

    Votes: 13 31.0%
  • Once or twice a month

    Votes: 12 28.6%
  • Nearly every night I go out

    Votes: 5 11.9%
  • Several times a night

    Votes: 3 7.1%

  • Total voters
    42

-Gripz-

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Women will try and talk to me or hit on my more than usual. I'll be going to the store, or getting something to eat and the lady cashier would compliment me on my looks. I had one women who would ask for my phone number every day when I came in for lunch she also would call me her man and would literally push the other workers out of the way to make my food, lol. I've also gotten approaches when I'm sitting and doing nothing. A lady would sit down and talk to me, you could say they were being friendly but it happens a lot. Most of the time I get staring. At college a couple girls would cross my path a few times to get a good look at me while was chilling at the lounge. Also when I'm at the gym I'll get women following me around, they would workout next to me and stare. The strange thing is, I really don't think I'm anything special in the looks department.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Plutoman

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Two to three times a month. Occasionally more. Generally the girls that do are far below my standards, I don't think I've ever been just approached by anyone higher than a 5.
 

VladPatton

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Never, unless they are selling something, taking a survey, or want something else. Even if that wasn't the case, I'd be suspicious of a girl approaching. That's guy territory.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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I get approached, but not by women I'm interested in. Almost all of them are grenades or high school aged jail bait. I'm very young looking for my age. Even though I'm 32 I could easily pass for 25 which I believe is why high school girls hit on me. They want an older guy with a car and his own place, but I'm not interested. I'm above average in looks, but not a hot guy by any stretch. Most women would probably rate me a 6.5/7 out of 10.
 

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I've gotten approached by several HB 10.5's in my life...with the police in tow pointing and saying: That's the freak right there!

Be careful of chicks approaching (even the hawt ones)....with the cops, bouncers or campus security. It's not a good look on your part no matter how you try to spin it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PappyS

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Women rarely approach men. Good looking young men are more likely to be approached by homosexuals and transvestites than by real women.
 

Hustlaz Ambition

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SgtSplacker said:
This poll is flawed, because if a guy like me goes to China or Africa I will get approached every 15 minutes...
Very flawed poll indeed. A good looking black man is going to get literally ****ing stalked in area with a lot of black women. You are the HB 10 with big tits and ass in those places. You will be trying to find ways to subtly tell them hoes "do not approach me" my Guess and Ed Hardy outfits are my b!tchshields lol. But ratchet, loud women are not my thing. Every now and then though there will be one hottie in those sea of hoodrats :up: This is completely different from the white guy living in a rural setting. I imagine he may not rarely if ever get approached.

Quality of women should have been included in this poll.
 

Huffman

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Hehe but what does the poll represent? I guess on this forum there's some really cool dudes, together with alot of nerdy losers who are only just starting out.

Now I don't know if that classifies "the majority of guys" in your bet ;)
 

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Packers2010 said:
i never get approached. and i think it has to do with my posture and look when out ( body language).

i'm working on it.
Always stand tall, shoulders back, legs apart, smile, chat - open body language is inviting, happy faces are inviting, chatty people= good to talk to:up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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