How not to come off as arrogant

[Darth]

I have a question for you guys before I head off for college.

I have a problem. Talking to girls, they will be initially very friendly, but whenever I crack a joke, or acknowledge a compliment (which is a lot), they sometimes turn very cold and distanced. Almost as if they thought I was arrogant/full of myself. They can even become hostile by the end (even if I'm not coming onto them at all).

Now, I'm not a complete wise guy, not at all, but I wonder how can I make myself more likable/less intimidating in conversation. It's becoming a real problem. I'm trying to be as friendly as I can, but I think this is my natural tendency.

I am good-looking if that matters.

Anyway, has anyone else had this problem? Could it be that these types of girls are attracted to me, but just don't want to admit it?
There are some guys that just "connect" with everyone. They have charisma, etc. I'm not one of them.

Thnks

 

[Fronsac]

Most girls may be intimidated, scared. Just keep working them, dont give up too easily. Humor and charm usually breaks down there defenses. Once you enter there mind/spirit your in command, theres no stopping u.

 

[Darth]

Thanks for the comment.

Also, I forgot to mention, this doesn't happen with women about 25 and up.

But it's the ones my age I'm talking about. If I don't come off well to my own generation that could be a problem.