"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How not to come off as arrogant

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Darth

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I have a question for you guys before I head off for college.

I have a problem. Talking to girls, they will be initially very friendly, but whenever I crack a joke, or acknowledge a compliment (which is a lot), they sometimes turn very cold and distanced. Almost as if they thought I was arrogant/full of myself. They can even become hostile by the end (even if I'm not coming onto them at all).

Now, I'm not a complete wise guy, not at all, but I wonder how can I make myself more likable/less intimidating in conversation. It's becoming a real problem. I'm trying to be as friendly as I can, but I think this is my natural tendency.

I am good-looking if that matters.

Anyway, has anyone else had this problem? Could it be that these types of girls are attracted to me, but just don't want to admit it?
There are some guys that just "connect" with everyone. They have charisma, etc. I'm not one of them.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Most girls may be intimidated, scared. Just keep working them, dont give up too easily. Humor and charm usually breaks down there defenses. Once you enter there mind/spirit your in command, theres no stopping u.
 
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Thanks for the comment.

Also, I forgot to mention, this doesn't happen with women about 25 and up.

But it's the ones my age I'm talking about. If I don't come off well to my own generation that could be a problem.
 
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