"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How not to be an AFC

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1. Do not buy a girl you are pursuing flowers

2. Don't send your gf the one who wants to break up with you flowers or jewlery

3. Do not tell them how you feel about them

4. Do not ass kiss them and tell them how greaat they are and they are the best thing that ever happened to you

5. Don't ever, ever tell your GF you love her first

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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6. Have a separate, dependable life from any girl(s) that you can escape to.

(Great idea btw)
 
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7. Do not repeatedly call or text/email/IM/a girl.

8. Do not fall for a girl before you have had sex with her, and be careful even if you had.

9. Be very careful of what details of your life you share with a girl, if any.
 
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10. Don't put your GF over your own interests. You come first.

11. Stand by what you say, and don't be sorry for anything.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's so funny about this site is the people giving advice are the ones who have no experience with women.

I've searched the names of the guys in this thread, and some of the posts I've found are:

"I got past kino, now what?"

"Do girls not like guys with baggy jeans?"

and my favorite "I'm a cool guy, I play the trumpet."

You think I'm gonna take advice from you idiots? lol, kiss my ass

The people in this forum are brainwashed. Don't send a girl flowers? Don't tell her how you feel? Don't tell her you love her first? If that was solid advice, there wouldn't be many relationships in the world, if any. You people are so far out of reality it's pathetic.

The guys in here have that ideology about women because they're vulnerable and it's what they've been told.
All propaganda has to be popular and has to accommodate itself to the comprehension of the least intelligent of those whom it seeks to reach.
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Who said that you ask? Hitler. This is exactly how he convinced millions to follow him. Think it's funny? It's no different than what's going on in this forum.
 
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SickAgain said:
14. Don't listen to Snowman23.
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I second that. What a troll. Only an AFC would have said the things that snowman23 said. What an AFC.
 
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Right. Let's all listen to people who don't know how to get past kino, and think they're cool because they play a musical instrument.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Snowman82, no one here has any need to validate themselves to you. If you just want to pick on guys that have questions and flame those that might have something constructive to contribute then leave. Getting off by putting down other guys is typical AFC and Beta behavior.

15. Be constructive, open minded and willing to work toward your goals.
 
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16. Always spin more than one plate

Snowman23 said:
and my favorite "I'm a cool guy, I play the trumpet."
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You're just jealous because I'm a trumpet player :p
 
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oldschooler said:
Guys everything here are pure guide lines, your all following it like a ****ing bible commandment.
I have enough real world experience to know how to game, half the **** on this forum is exactly that ****, aimed at the "AFC's"
Step into reality and break away from this, it means nothing real world experience is everything.
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This is Sosuave. Home of the KBJs and AFCs.

I agree with what you posted though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ratisson said:
I second that. What a troll. Only an AFC would have said the things that snowman23 said. What an AFC.
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HAHAHA, you guys are clueless. I've read a lot of good posts from Snowman. I completely respect the guy. Most of these rules are right, but he's right, a lot of guys on here give advice even though they have little, if any, experience. Anymore, it seems like the only quality stuff I read comes from the DJ Bible.
 
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Baruch said:
1. Do not buy a girl you are pursuing flowers
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Yes, don’t buy her flowers, pick wild ones, or if you have artistic talents, draw her one.

3. Do not tell them how you feel about them
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This only applies if you are obviously out of your league and you were just a novelty for her to play with. Once you start telling her that you actually like her it’s like ewww ickkk. However, if the girl is really into you and you’re into her and you have the wherewithal to see the reality of it, telling her how you feel will actually increase her affections for you.
 
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