"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How not to be an AFC

Baruch

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1. Do not buy a girl you are pursuing flowers

2. Don't send your gf the one who wants to break up with you flowers or jewlery

3. Do not tell them how you feel about them

4. Do not ass kiss them and tell them how greaat they are and they are the best thing that ever happened to you

5. Don't ever, ever tell your GF you love her first

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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6. Have a separate, dependable life from any girl(s) that you can escape to.

(Great idea btw)
 

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7. Do not repeatedly call or text/email/IM/a girl.

8. Do not fall for a girl before you have had sex with her, and be careful even if you had.

9. Be very careful of what details of your life you share with a girl, if any.
 
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10. Don't put your GF over your own interests. You come first.

11. Stand by what you say, and don't be sorry for anything.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's so funny about this site is the people giving advice are the ones who have no experience with women.

I've searched the names of the guys in this thread, and some of the posts I've found are:

"I got past kino, now what?"

"Do girls not like guys with baggy jeans?"

and my favorite "I'm a cool guy, I play the trumpet."

You think I'm gonna take advice from you idiots? lol, kiss my ass

The people in this forum are brainwashed. Don't send a girl flowers? Don't tell her how you feel? Don't tell her you love her first? If that was solid advice, there wouldn't be many relationships in the world, if any. You people are so far out of reality it's pathetic.

The guys in here have that ideology about women because they're vulnerable and it's what they've been told.
All propaganda has to be popular and has to accommodate itself to the comprehension of the least intelligent of those whom it seeks to reach.
Who said that you ask? Hitler. This is exactly how he convinced millions to follow him. Think it's funny? It's no different than what's going on in this forum.
 

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SickAgain said:
14. Don't listen to Snowman23.
I second that. What a troll. Only an AFC would have said the things that snowman23 said. What an AFC.
 

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Right. Let's all listen to people who don't know how to get past kino, and think they're cool because they play a musical instrument.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Snowman82, no one here has any need to validate themselves to you. If you just want to pick on guys that have questions and flame those that might have something constructive to contribute then leave. Getting off by putting down other guys is typical AFC and Beta behavior.

15. Be constructive, open minded and willing to work toward your goals.
 

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16. Always spin more than one plate

Snowman23 said:
and my favorite "I'm a cool guy, I play the trumpet."
You're just jealous because I'm a trumpet player :p
 

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Guys everything here are pure guide lines, your all following it like a ****ing bible commandment.
I have enough real world experience to know how to game, half the **** on this forum is exactly that ****, aimed at the "AFC's"
Step into reality and break away from this, it means nothing real world experience is everything.
This is Sosuave. Home of the KBJs and AFCs.

I agree with what you posted though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ratisson said:
I second that. What a troll. Only an AFC would have said the things that snowman23 said. What an AFC.
HAHAHA, you guys are clueless. I've read a lot of good posts from Snowman. I completely respect the guy. Most of these rules are right, but he's right, a lot of guys on here give advice even though they have little, if any, experience. Anymore, it seems like the only quality stuff I read comes from the DJ Bible.
 

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Baruch said:
1. Do not buy a girl you are pursuing flowers
Yes, don’t buy her flowers, pick wild ones, or if you have artistic talents, draw her one.

3. Do not tell them how you feel about them
This only applies if you are obviously out of your league and you were just a novelty for her to play with. Once you start telling her that you actually like her it’s like ewww ickkk. However, if the girl is really into you and you’re into her and you have the wherewithal to see the reality of it, telling her how you feel will actually increase her affections for you.
 
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