Do you make your conversations quick and to the point and get off? Of do you sit there on the phone talking for long periods of time? What about those of you that really like a girl, do you have long phone talks or do you believe in saving your long talks for when you are face to face?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How much time do you spend on the phone with girls?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
aussiegoat55
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As a guy we tend to use the phone as a tool for information so talking to girls or friends, I spend 30 seconds to 3 minutes on the phone and wait to I see them in person for long talks. It's not some DJ rule that I strictly follow, it's what I have been doing. I think the lognest I have ever talked on the phone was 10 minutes.speakeasy said:
I would say save long talks for face to face, that way you can show off body language, do kino, make eye contact, smile.
THE LONGER the time on the phone the more likely to say something lame.
The problem is you start to develope virtual romance that is still two dimensional. Phones are best to set up dates, say hello, etc.
Conversation is for face to face. Increasing the phone call frequncy and time intervals is relationship material.
time spent on phone should be time spent face to face.
A phone is a tool, like the computer(I.m's, pics, emails) use it for setting up dates. If you need a friend call a friend, but if you want sex, keep phone calls to a minimum.
The problem is you start to develope virtual romance that is still two dimensional. Phones are best to set up dates, say hello, etc.
Conversation is for face to face. Increasing the phone call frequncy and time intervals is relationship material.
time spent on phone should be time spent face to face.
A phone is a tool, like the computer(I.m's, pics, emails) use it for setting up dates. If you need a friend call a friend, but if you want sex, keep phone calls to a minimum.
backbreaker
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I hate phones. I got my cell phone bill last month, all and I all I spent a little less than 150 mintues on the phone. I get house phone calls but still the same. unless you are calling to see if you can come over, an emergency or I am calling to get you to come over or go out, I have no reason or time to talk to you
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Chatting away on a cellphone is like IM'ing and texting and MySpace rubbish.
It's for chicks.
If Mrs. K or li'l K need to talk to me about something it's short and sweet. It's my rule and unbreakable. Even at work, it's A-B-C. Get to the fvcking point and be done. You'll be surprised how the respect factor shoots through the roof when you're congruent enough to stand your ground and swat away lame bullsh!t.
It's for chicks.
If Mrs. K or li'l K need to talk to me about something it's short and sweet. It's my rule and unbreakable. Even at work, it's A-B-C. Get to the fvcking point and be done. You'll be surprised how the respect factor shoots through the roof when you're congruent enough to stand your ground and swat away lame bullsh!t.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Manolo
Don Juan
Exactly.Willis said:
If you are calling a girl that you just met you need to make the conversation as brief as possible, remember you call to make a date you never do that in person.
When it's your girlfriend it is a whole other story. I even try not to talk that much with my girlfriends, I rather say what I have to in person. If I didn't need my mobile for work I would throw it out the window.
