"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How much sex is too much?

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After my last couple posts, it seems that I'm being judged as desperate and needy. This isn't really the case...

Before my recent girlfriend, which is a big thing because I thought I would never have one this serious ever again, I would sleep with a new amazing hot woman at least once every two weeks, and if that was it then I would at least hook up or fool around with other women.

I already have so many opinions of "you're letting women rule your life" and you're "not mature enough," and other very negative put downs. They don't know me.

I've lost count of the women. I just fell out of the habit after a while. But don't get me wrong, I thankfully still have standards and practice safe sex. With my current girlfriend, I strive to use romance and persuasion to have sex of a minimum of twice a day, and I need to fool around if it's at the minimum. I would probably let my life be over-run by sex if I had the time or too little ambition.

Any thoughts or insight?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lol that is like saying how much should I do the things I like? listen man live life your own way's why are ou asking for somebody else's opinion? that's like saying which one is best.. rock, paper or scissors
 
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eatgel said:
lol that is like saying how much should I do the things I like? listen man live life your own way's why are ou asking for somebody else's opinion? that's like saying which one is best.. rock, paper or scissors
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scissors :D
 
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rock.
 
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Twice a day? Every day?

I don't even want to see a girl that often let alone have sex with her that often.

Sex just isn't that interesting, especially when you have a steady source of it. People like to eat but no one normal stresses over it until the well dries up.

It does start to sound like sex is ruling your life. I haven't even seen your other posts.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Guess I got Paper
 
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I think it is somewhere between "Oh my god it's chaffed to all hell" and "Oh **** I think it fell off"

Anything less than that and you are fine.
 
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Caferacer said:
"Oh my god it's chaffed to all hell"
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i had that this weekend, not cool. i was actively not getting a hardon because i thought if i did, it might start leaking :eek:

to OP, i think as long as it doesn't start showing physical indications of infection, or you start passing out randomly you should be ok.

you might wanna take a multi-vitamin/mineral though :|
 
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