"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How much sex is too much?

sxyazsin

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After my last couple posts, it seems that I'm being judged as desperate and needy. This isn't really the case...

Before my recent girlfriend, which is a big thing because I thought I would never have one this serious ever again, I would sleep with a new amazing hot woman at least once every two weeks, and if that was it then I would at least hook up or fool around with other women.

I already have so many opinions of "you're letting women rule your life" and you're "not mature enough," and other very negative put downs. They don't know me.

I've lost count of the women. I just fell out of the habit after a while. But don't get me wrong, I thankfully still have standards and practice safe sex. With my current girlfriend, I strive to use romance and persuasion to have sex of a minimum of twice a day, and I need to fool around if it's at the minimum. I would probably let my life be over-run by sex if I had the time or too little ambition.

Any thoughts or insight?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eatgel

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lol that is like saying how much should I do the things I like? listen man live life your own way's why are ou asking for somebody else's opinion? that's like saying which one is best.. rock, paper or scissors
 

Flyer

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eatgel said:
lol that is like saying how much should I do the things I like? listen man live life your own way's why are ou asking for somebody else's opinion? that's like saying which one is best.. rock, paper or scissors
scissors :D
 

MrS

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rock.
 

mrRuckus

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Twice a day? Every day?

I don't even want to see a girl that often let alone have sex with her that often.

Sex just isn't that interesting, especially when you have a steady source of it. People like to eat but no one normal stresses over it until the well dries up.

It does start to sound like sex is ruling your life. I haven't even seen your other posts.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I-tallionStallion

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Guess I got Paper
 

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I think it is somewhere between "Oh my god it's chaffed to all hell" and "Oh **** I think it fell off"

Anything less than that and you are fine.
 

Aragon034

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Caferacer said:
"Oh my god it's chaffed to all hell"
i had that this weekend, not cool. i was actively not getting a hardon because i thought if i did, it might start leaking :eek:

to OP, i think as long as it doesn't start showing physical indications of infection, or you start passing out randomly you should be ok.

you might wanna take a multi-vitamin/mineral though :|
 
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