"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How much sex is too much?

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After my last couple posts, it seems that I'm being judged as desperate and needy. This isn't really the case...

Before my recent girlfriend, which is a big thing because I thought I would never have one this serious ever again, I would sleep with a new amazing hot woman at least once every two weeks, and if that was it then I would at least hook up or fool around with other women.

I already have so many opinions of "you're letting women rule your life" and you're "not mature enough," and other very negative put downs. They don't know me.

I've lost count of the women. I just fell out of the habit after a while. But don't get me wrong, I thankfully still have standards and practice safe sex. With my current girlfriend, I strive to use romance and persuasion to have sex of a minimum of twice a day, and I need to fool around if it's at the minimum. I would probably let my life be over-run by sex if I had the time or too little ambition.

Any thoughts or insight?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol that is like saying how much should I do the things I like? listen man live life your own way's why are ou asking for somebody else's opinion? that's like saying which one is best.. rock, paper or scissors
 
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eatgel said:
lol that is like saying how much should I do the things I like? listen man live life your own way's why are ou asking for somebody else's opinion? that's like saying which one is best.. rock, paper or scissors
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scissors :D
 
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rock.
 
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Twice a day? Every day?

I don't even want to see a girl that often let alone have sex with her that often.

Sex just isn't that interesting, especially when you have a steady source of it. People like to eat but no one normal stresses over it until the well dries up.

It does start to sound like sex is ruling your life. I haven't even seen your other posts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Guess I got Paper
 
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I think it is somewhere between "Oh my god it's chaffed to all hell" and "Oh **** I think it fell off"

Anything less than that and you are fine.
 
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Caferacer said:
"Oh my god it's chaffed to all hell"
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i had that this weekend, not cool. i was actively not getting a hardon because i thought if i did, it might start leaking :eek:

to OP, i think as long as it doesn't start showing physical indications of infection, or you start passing out randomly you should be ok.

you might wanna take a multi-vitamin/mineral though :|
 
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