"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How Much Rest is Enough Rest?

prosemont

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I constantly hear that if you're training hard, you need to rest, rest, rest. I know it's true, but goddamn there don't seem to be enough hours in the day to rest adequately.

In a perfect world, if you're lifting heavy and throwing in some cardio as well, how much should you rest?

7 hrs?
8 hrs?
9 hrs?

How much?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'd like to add a question to this...Say you have 2 "off" days in a row where you're not training. If basically all I do those days is sit on my ass in front of the comp/play videogames and not really do any activity to speak of, is it okay to get less rest? Like 5-6 hours or something?
 
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Originally posted by thebob
I'd like to add a question to this...Say you have 2 "off" days in a row where you're not training. If basically all I do those days is sit on my ass in front of the comp/play videogames and not really do any activity to speak of, is it okay to get less rest? Like 5-6 hours or something?
not really, because you would still be technically "sleep deprived" - however it all depends if you feel when you wake up.. are you sluggish? or do you feel well rested? Not everyone really needs 8-9 hrs of sleep.. I physically can't sleep 8-9 hrs anymore.. my body automatically wakes up after about 6.5 hrs of sleep.
 

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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If I'm tired enough I can sleep a while...I like getting as much sleep as I can, but I'm busy enough during the week to end up with 7 hours tops.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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stormwriter

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I was just reading an article about sleep and recovery. It said that you should rate your sleep on a scale of one to five; one being a bad night sleep, and five being a great night sleep. If you start having a couple bad night's sleep, it says that you might be overtraining.
As i write this, it's 6:45am on Sunday morning, and i just can't sleep, from two hours of basketball and one hour of serious lifting yesterday. My body just ached all night and no sleep position was comfortable.

So, pay attention to your sleep, and adjust accordingly. I know this is more about overtraining, but it's interesting.
 

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THere are a lot of factors that determine how well you get a nights sleep. If you are sleeping on a spring bed and have a very sensitive back you might want to invest into a non spring mattress or try sleeping on the floor.
I know that i sleep better when i sleep on a firmer surface than soft.

One thing that you can do to help you sleep better is become aware of how it feels when your weight and gravity is pushing against the surface of your bed whenyou are laying and snuggle your head firmly and nicely into your pillow.
 
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