"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How Much Rest is Enough Rest?

prosemont

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I constantly hear that if you're training hard, you need to rest, rest, rest. I know it's true, but goddamn there don't seem to be enough hours in the day to rest adequately.

In a perfect world, if you're lifting heavy and throwing in some cardio as well, how much should you rest?

7 hrs?
8 hrs?
9 hrs?

How much?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd like to add a question to this...Say you have 2 "off" days in a row where you're not training. If basically all I do those days is sit on my ass in front of the comp/play videogames and not really do any activity to speak of, is it okay to get less rest? Like 5-6 hours or something?
 
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Originally posted by thebob
I'd like to add a question to this...Say you have 2 "off" days in a row where you're not training. If basically all I do those days is sit on my ass in front of the comp/play videogames and not really do any activity to speak of, is it okay to get less rest? Like 5-6 hours or something?
not really, because you would still be technically "sleep deprived" - however it all depends if you feel when you wake up.. are you sluggish? or do you feel well rested? Not everyone really needs 8-9 hrs of sleep.. I physically can't sleep 8-9 hrs anymore.. my body automatically wakes up after about 6.5 hrs of sleep.
 

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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If I'm tired enough I can sleep a while...I like getting as much sleep as I can, but I'm busy enough during the week to end up with 7 hours tops.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stormwriter

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I was just reading an article about sleep and recovery. It said that you should rate your sleep on a scale of one to five; one being a bad night sleep, and five being a great night sleep. If you start having a couple bad night's sleep, it says that you might be overtraining.
As i write this, it's 6:45am on Sunday morning, and i just can't sleep, from two hours of basketball and one hour of serious lifting yesterday. My body just ached all night and no sleep position was comfortable.

So, pay attention to your sleep, and adjust accordingly. I know this is more about overtraining, but it's interesting.
 

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THere are a lot of factors that determine how well you get a nights sleep. If you are sleeping on a spring bed and have a very sensitive back you might want to invest into a non spring mattress or try sleeping on the floor.
I know that i sleep better when i sleep on a firmer surface than soft.

One thing that you can do to help you sleep better is become aware of how it feels when your weight and gravity is pushing against the surface of your bed whenyou are laying and snuggle your head firmly and nicely into your pillow.
 
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