scattered_ice
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answer pls
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
some people want status and money so they can impress people so these people will like them so they can feel good about themselvesBraddH said:There is none. It is absolute natural that we tend to aim for more. It is evolution
what would you do if I told you that mindset is the result of your past experiences and not the generator of your potential gains?YAboi said:it varies from person to person. Sometimes you have to go through lots of pain to realise you were actually a diamond covered in mud (a crappy mindset)
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
lets hear the answer to your question from you then.....scattered_ice said:what would you do if I told you that mindset is the result of your past experiences and not the generator of your potential gains?
thinking is not doing, because only doing is doing
thinking is just thinking, feeling is just feeling, knowing is just knowing
if what people thought mattered the streets would be filled under 5 minutes with dead guys and pregnant women
lol only the almighty feelbird can help you with thatRuthless said:Why am I feeling the sudden urge to give you money? Is there a book, or website, where I can explore these feelings?
the answer rationally is that you are already enough, yet when you go out you still don't behave that wayYAboi said:lets hear the answer to your question from you then.....
why do you even think that I'm guru selling stuff? you think that you are so important that people should chase you down to find you on the internetRuthless said:Why am I feeling the sudden urge to give you money? Is there a book, or website, where I can explore these feelings?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Just seemed like a very familiar pitch.scattered_ice said:why do you even think that I'm guru selling stuff? you think that you are so important that people should chase you down to find you on the internet![]()
you liking yourself is common sense and it's where all starts, if you aren't content with who you are you are going to waste all your energy on masks and micromanaging others expectations of you which is a female behaviorRuthless said:Just seemed like a very familiar pitch.
As a matter of fact: I do think the world should be begging for my advice. Thats probably the megalomanical side of me speaking though.
I am impressed by the level of your psychic skills:-) said:op sounds like a girl.
well you'd know...mrs low postcount, attacking everybody...scattered_ice said:I am impressed by the level of your psychic skills
low postcount + attack = you are coward who created this user account because you are afraid to be banned on your primary account since you had so much invested in it you e-reputation is the end all be all to you and the guarantee of the fulfillment of your dreams
you sir you are a phaggot yourself
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Seriously though, what are you selling? Put it in your signature so its easy to find. ;-)scattered_ice said:you liking yourself is common sense and it's where all starts, if you aren't content with who you are you are going to waste all your energy on masks and micromanaging others expectations of you which is a female behavior
than you should accept sexuality with all it's ups and downs
and if you got these covered and still don't have results by going out a lot maybe than and only than you should start reading all the stuff on forums