"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how much do you need to lose to realize that you are already enough?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BraddH said:
There is none. It is absolute natural that we tend to aim for more. It is evolution
some people want status and money so they can impress people so these people will like them so they can feel good about themselves

so re-read the first post pls
 

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YAboi said:
it varies from person to person. Sometimes you have to go through lots of pain to realise you were actually a diamond covered in mud (a crappy mindset)
what would you do if I told you that mindset is the result of your past experiences and not the generator of your potential gains?

thinking is not doing, because only doing is doing

thinking is just thinking, feeling is just feeling, knowing is just knowing

if what people thought mattered the streets would be filled under 5 minutes with dead guys and pregnant women
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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scattered_ice said:
what would you do if I told you that mindset is the result of your past experiences and not the generator of your potential gains?

thinking is not doing, because only doing is doing

thinking is just thinking, feeling is just feeling, knowing is just knowing

if what people thought mattered the streets would be filled under 5 minutes with dead guys and pregnant women
lets hear the answer to your question from you then.....
 

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Why am I feeling the sudden urge to give you money? Is there a book, or website, where I can explore these feelings?
 

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YAboi said:
lets hear the answer to your question from you then.....
the answer rationally is that you are already enough, yet when you go out you still don't behave that way

and the truth is only you know why and not me or somebody else
 

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Ruthless said:
Why am I feeling the sudden urge to give you money? Is there a book, or website, where I can explore these feelings?
why do you even think that I'm guru selling stuff? you think that you are so important that people should chase you down to find you on the internet :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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scattered_ice said:
why do you even think that I'm guru selling stuff? you think that you are so important that people should chase you down to find you on the internet :D
Just seemed like a very familiar pitch.

As a matter of fact: I do think the world should be begging for my advice. Thats probably the megalomanical side of me speaking though.
 

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Ruthless said:
Just seemed like a very familiar pitch.

As a matter of fact: I do think the world should be begging for my advice. Thats probably the megalomanical side of me speaking though.
you liking yourself is common sense and it's where all starts, if you aren't content with who you are you are going to waste all your energy on masks and micromanaging others expectations of you which is a female behavior

than you should accept sexuality with all it's ups and downs

and if you got these covered and still don't have results by going out a lot maybe than and only than you should start reading all the stuff on forums
 

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:-) said:
op sounds like a girl.
I am impressed by the level of your psychic skills

low postcount + attack = you are coward who created this user account because you are afraid to be banned on your primary account since you had so much invested in it in your e-reputation it's the end all be all to you and the guarantee of the fulfillment of your dreams

you sir you are a phaggot yourself
 

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scattered_ice said:
I am impressed by the level of your psychic skills

low postcount + attack = you are coward who created this user account because you are afraid to be banned on your primary account since you had so much invested in it you e-reputation is the end all be all to you and the guarantee of the fulfillment of your dreams

you sir you are a phaggot yourself
well you'd know...mrs low postcount, attacking everybody...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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scattered_ice said:
you liking yourself is common sense and it's where all starts, if you aren't content with who you are you are going to waste all your energy on masks and micromanaging others expectations of you which is a female behavior

than you should accept sexuality with all it's ups and downs

and if you got these covered and still don't have results by going out a lot maybe than and only than you should start reading all the stuff on forums
Seriously though, what are you selling? Put it in your signature so its easy to find. ;-)
 
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