scattered_ice
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answer pls
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
some people want status and money so they can impress people so these people will like them so they can feel good about themselvesBraddH said:There is none. It is absolute natural that we tend to aim for more. It is evolution
what would you do if I told you that mindset is the result of your past experiences and not the generator of your potential gains?YAboi said:it varies from person to person. Sometimes you have to go through lots of pain to realise you were actually a diamond covered in mud (a crappy mindset)
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
lets hear the answer to your question from you then.....scattered_ice said:what would you do if I told you that mindset is the result of your past experiences and not the generator of your potential gains?
thinking is not doing, because only doing is doing
thinking is just thinking, feeling is just feeling, knowing is just knowing
if what people thought mattered the streets would be filled under 5 minutes with dead guys and pregnant women
lol only the almighty feelbird can help you with thatRuthless said:Why am I feeling the sudden urge to give you money? Is there a book, or website, where I can explore these feelings?
the answer rationally is that you are already enough, yet when you go out you still don't behave that wayYAboi said:lets hear the answer to your question from you then.....
why do you even think that I'm guru selling stuff? you think that you are so important that people should chase you down to find you on the internetRuthless said:Why am I feeling the sudden urge to give you money? Is there a book, or website, where I can explore these feelings?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Just seemed like a very familiar pitch.scattered_ice said:why do you even think that I'm guru selling stuff? you think that you are so important that people should chase you down to find you on the internet![]()
you liking yourself is common sense and it's where all starts, if you aren't content with who you are you are going to waste all your energy on masks and micromanaging others expectations of you which is a female behaviorRuthless said:Just seemed like a very familiar pitch.
As a matter of fact: I do think the world should be begging for my advice. Thats probably the megalomanical side of me speaking though.
I am impressed by the level of your psychic skills:-) said:op sounds like a girl.
well you'd know...mrs low postcount, attacking everybody...scattered_ice said:I am impressed by the level of your psychic skills
low postcount + attack = you are coward who created this user account because you are afraid to be banned on your primary account since you had so much invested in it you e-reputation is the end all be all to you and the guarantee of the fulfillment of your dreams
you sir you are a phaggot yourself
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Seriously though, what are you selling? Put it in your signature so its easy to find. ;-)scattered_ice said:you liking yourself is common sense and it's where all starts, if you aren't content with who you are you are going to waste all your energy on masks and micromanaging others expectations of you which is a female behavior
than you should accept sexuality with all it's ups and downs
and if you got these covered and still don't have results by going out a lot maybe than and only than you should start reading all the stuff on forums