FuzzyLives
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How much do looks matter? What are the best ways to improve your looks?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How much do looks really matter?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I was fat, weighed around 84kgs during my first year in university, this girl i tried to talk to back then made fun of me and just said she was not interested.
i started working out wore some nice clothes and by the time i was in my final year i lost the fat and gained some muscle, the same girl starts texting me for no reason.
i asked her what changed her mind,
she said, "i look different now."
i started working out wore some nice clothes and by the time i was in my final year i lost the fat and gained some muscle, the same girl starts texting me for no reason.
i asked her what changed her mind,
she said, "i look different now."
FuzzyLives
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Lmao that pretty much sums it up brotha
SmooveMooves
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A lot
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PeasantPlayer
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No, average looking is an advantagr
Roober
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If you got lucky on the gene pool, I think it gives you a significant advantage. Essentially, they don't have to work as hard. But then it is a double edged sword... But then it ends up like beautiful women and they do t invest as much in themselves because they got lucky.
I think you can compare the looks gene pool similar to giving someone a head start in a race. If the woman is at the end of a 100 hard dash, the more attractive man had a 10 hard head start in front of the rest of the crowd. Average looking guys like myself can beat them, we just to work harder.
I think you can compare the looks gene pool similar to giving someone a head start in a race. If the woman is at the end of a 100 hard dash, the more attractive man had a 10 hard head start in front of the rest of the crowd. Average looking guys like myself can beat them, we just to work harder.
Mike32ct
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She can't F your personality/charm/sense of humor/swagger/game.
She can only kiss a face and F a body.
She can only kiss a face and F a body.
RichardTheFrog
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I once posed as Chad Thundercock on Tinder. I could have ****ed 3-5 girls/day. Many of them hot. But even Chad got more non-matches than matches.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
FuzzyLives
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What do you think is considered a good rating for looks? What are the best things to do to Max your looks?
Mike32ct
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7 is decent. 8 is a home run and Chad territory.
6 is workable but very challenging.
Other than the usual "work out" advice, I will say that hairstyle is critical. A stylish new hairstyle is "low hanging fruit" for looks-maxing.
For clothing, I gonna go against the grain a bit and say it's the SHIRT, not the shoes, that are #1. By all means have good shoes too, but women zero in on your shirt because it's eye level most of the time.
1. Height
2. Hair
3. Dress
Can't stress how important height is. A lot of good looking girls know I have a ton of assets, but they could care less. They went with someone with not much money, but 6'2.
Worry about your height and worry your hair. Do not focus on money. NO ONE CARES.
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I am 6'2" lol I weigh about 160 right now. I'm going into my sophomore year of college.
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Well I've been rated around 7 to 8 idk if some of them were drunk at the time they said it but I've had more than not tell me 7-8 range. Those ratings are just facially though I'm very skinny so idk if that actually kills the attraction when they see I'm very skinny. Do you think if I got a bigger, better physique to i guess you could say match my facial looks it would help a lot?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dingo
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NO CHIT !....
wifehunter
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You'll be fine, as long as you're as sexy as this guy:
RichardTheFrog
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How exactly can you work on your height?
There's a reason for that. Western women generally are not reserved and modest and they aren't 'sugar, spice and all things nice'. Kidding ourselves that they are otherwise is like walking repeatedly into a brick wall, hence why 'looks matter' threads will regularly appear. They vocalise about looks a lot, as virtually everything in their lives is visual. If they are going to lay into a man's looks to such an extent, then I am not convinced they have a soul. They CARE more about them, whereas with men a quick fvck would suffice. Even if they are not interested in having children the hot man is still wired into their attraction switches.
All this is why movements like MGTOW start up.
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