FuzzyLives
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How much do looks matter? What are the best ways to improve your looks?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How much do looks really matter?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I was fat, weighed around 84kgs during my first year in university, this girl i tried to talk to back then made fun of me and just said she was not interested.
i started working out wore some nice clothes and by the time i was in my final year i lost the fat and gained some muscle, the same girl starts texting me for no reason.
i asked her what changed her mind,
she said, "i look different now."
i started working out wore some nice clothes and by the time i was in my final year i lost the fat and gained some muscle, the same girl starts texting me for no reason.
i asked her what changed her mind,
she said, "i look different now."
FuzzyLives
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Lmao that pretty much sums it up brotha
SmooveMooves
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A lot
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PeasantPlayer
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No, average looking is an advantagr
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If you got lucky on the gene pool, I think it gives you a significant advantage. Essentially, they don't have to work as hard. But then it is a double edged sword... But then it ends up like beautiful women and they do t invest as much in themselves because they got lucky.
I think you can compare the looks gene pool similar to giving someone a head start in a race. If the woman is at the end of a 100 hard dash, the more attractive man had a 10 hard head start in front of the rest of the crowd. Average looking guys like myself can beat them, we just to work harder.
I think you can compare the looks gene pool similar to giving someone a head start in a race. If the woman is at the end of a 100 hard dash, the more attractive man had a 10 hard head start in front of the rest of the crowd. Average looking guys like myself can beat them, we just to work harder.
Mike32ct
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She can't F your personality/charm/sense of humor/swagger/game.
She can only kiss a face and F a body.
She can only kiss a face and F a body.
RichardTheFrog
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I once posed as Chad Thundercock on Tinder. I could have ****ed 3-5 girls/day. Many of them hot. But even Chad got more non-matches than matches.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
FuzzyLives
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What do you think is considered a good rating for looks? What are the best things to do to Max your looks?
Mike32ct
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7 is decent. 8 is a home run and Chad territory.
6 is workable but very challenging.
Other than the usual "work out" advice, I will say that hairstyle is critical. A stylish new hairstyle is "low hanging fruit" for looks-maxing.
For clothing, I gonna go against the grain a bit and say it's the SHIRT, not the shoes, that are #1. By all means have good shoes too, but women zero in on your shirt because it's eye level most of the time.
1. Height
2. Hair
3. Dress
Can't stress how important height is. A lot of good looking girls know I have a ton of assets, but they could care less. They went with someone with not much money, but 6'2.
Worry about your height and worry your hair. Do not focus on money. NO ONE CARES.
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I am 6'2" lol I weigh about 160 right now. I'm going into my sophomore year of college.
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Well I've been rated around 7 to 8 idk if some of them were drunk at the time they said it but I've had more than not tell me 7-8 range. Those ratings are just facially though I'm very skinny so idk if that actually kills the attraction when they see I'm very skinny. Do you think if I got a bigger, better physique to i guess you could say match my facial looks it would help a lot?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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NO CHIT !....
wifehunter
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You'll be fine, as long as you're as sexy as this guy:
RichardTheFrog
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How exactly can you work on your height?
There's a reason for that. Western women generally are not reserved and modest and they aren't 'sugar, spice and all things nice'. Kidding ourselves that they are otherwise is like walking repeatedly into a brick wall, hence why 'looks matter' threads will regularly appear. They vocalise about looks a lot, as virtually everything in their lives is visual. If they are going to lay into a man's looks to such an extent, then I am not convinced they have a soul. They CARE more about them, whereas with men a quick fvck would suffice. Even if they are not interested in having children the hot man is still wired into their attraction switches.
All this is why movements like MGTOW start up.
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