youngprodigy
Don Juan
If you’re dating a girl that gives you unlimited ***** and head, which is potential ltr or main chick, how much should you limit to for a week?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How much D do you limit them
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Depends on how long you have been seeing her and what you want out of it.
Seeing her less than a month and only want to bang her- twice a week
Less than a month and have an agreed FWB situation- bang her 3-4 times a week and enjoy it while it lasts
Less than a month and potential LTR- twice a week
What is important here is that you do what YOU want, no matter how long you have been seeing her or where you think it will go.
I would be very slow to see any chick more than 3 times a week. That way you keep it fresh, remain sort of mysterious and make her wonder about you in the mean time (which means as little texting in between seeing her as you can get away with) and allow yourself plenty of free time to do other things that you like doing (hobbies, working, hanging out with your buddies,etc).
Have fun with her and dont burn each other out.
Seeing her less than a month and only want to bang her- twice a week
Less than a month and have an agreed FWB situation- bang her 3-4 times a week and enjoy it while it lasts
Less than a month and potential LTR- twice a week
What is important here is that you do what YOU want, no matter how long you have been seeing her or where you think it will go.
I would be very slow to see any chick more than 3 times a week. That way you keep it fresh, remain sort of mysterious and make her wonder about you in the mean time (which means as little texting in between seeing her as you can get away with) and allow yourself plenty of free time to do other things that you like doing (hobbies, working, hanging out with your buddies,etc).
Have fun with her and dont burn each other out.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
wtf, FWB is 2 or 3x a day
come on guys.. im 52.
come on guys.. im 52.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
hmmm... ive a plate coming to visit Sat 3pm/Sun 8pm, I expect I will cvm no less than 3x a day
no viagra, never once
In a commited relationship sex usally averages out to 5-10x a week, averaged over years...
am i missing something about this topic?
no viagra, never once
In a commited relationship sex usally averages out to 5-10x a week, averaged over years...
am i missing something about this topic?
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Murk
Master Don Juan
That's only possible if you live together, otherwise banging twice a day is not really feasible.
I restrict most to twice a week.
My ex gf I would see sometimes the whole weekend and a day in the week prob wed or thurs. Sometimes I'd only see her twice a week and stay over - that was enough for me but never enough for her.
I just need my ****ing space, the thought of seeing the same girl 3 times a week is disgusting to me.
I went on a tinder date last night after work, this girl rejected me coming to her or her coming to mine even though she was horny and said she wanted to sit on my d!ck. Girls and stupid rules. Anyway she wants me to go to the natural history museum with her today... that's fvcking eager and sprung.
Girl came to my place last friday and stayed til saturday afternoon when I kicked her out. She wanted to come over monday and bring me dinner.
Honestly, these girls just creep me out, and I just want my abusive violent ex that want's nothing to do with me. Maybe I'm not well.
I restrict most to twice a week.
My ex gf I would see sometimes the whole weekend and a day in the week prob wed or thurs. Sometimes I'd only see her twice a week and stay over - that was enough for me but never enough for her.
I just need my ****ing space, the thought of seeing the same girl 3 times a week is disgusting to me.
I went on a tinder date last night after work, this girl rejected me coming to her or her coming to mine even though she was horny and said she wanted to sit on my d!ck. Girls and stupid rules. Anyway she wants me to go to the natural history museum with her today... that's fvcking eager and sprung.
Girl came to my place last friday and stayed til saturday afternoon when I kicked her out. She wanted to come over monday and bring me dinner.
Honestly, these girls just creep me out, and I just want my abusive violent ex that want's nothing to do with me. Maybe I'm not well.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
#1 - I admire your sincerity
#2 - That sentence would make an interesting "about me" section of an online personal ad.