youngprodigy
Don Juan
If you’re dating a girl that gives you unlimited ***** and head, which is potential ltr or main chick, how much should you limit to for a week?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How much D do you limit them
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Depends on how long you have been seeing her and what you want out of it.
Seeing her less than a month and only want to bang her- twice a week
Less than a month and have an agreed FWB situation- bang her 3-4 times a week and enjoy it while it lasts
Less than a month and potential LTR- twice a week
What is important here is that you do what YOU want, no matter how long you have been seeing her or where you think it will go.
I would be very slow to see any chick more than 3 times a week. That way you keep it fresh, remain sort of mysterious and make her wonder about you in the mean time (which means as little texting in between seeing her as you can get away with) and allow yourself plenty of free time to do other things that you like doing (hobbies, working, hanging out with your buddies,etc).
Have fun with her and dont burn each other out.
Seeing her less than a month and only want to bang her- twice a week
Less than a month and have an agreed FWB situation- bang her 3-4 times a week and enjoy it while it lasts
Less than a month and potential LTR- twice a week
What is important here is that you do what YOU want, no matter how long you have been seeing her or where you think it will go.
I would be very slow to see any chick more than 3 times a week. That way you keep it fresh, remain sort of mysterious and make her wonder about you in the mean time (which means as little texting in between seeing her as you can get away with) and allow yourself plenty of free time to do other things that you like doing (hobbies, working, hanging out with your buddies,etc).
Have fun with her and dont burn each other out.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
wtf, FWB is 2 or 3x a day
come on guys.. im 52.
come on guys.. im 52.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
hmmm... ive a plate coming to visit Sat 3pm/Sun 8pm, I expect I will cvm no less than 3x a day
no viagra, never once
In a commited relationship sex usally averages out to 5-10x a week, averaged over years...
am i missing something about this topic?
no viagra, never once
In a commited relationship sex usally averages out to 5-10x a week, averaged over years...
am i missing something about this topic?
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Murk
Master Don Juan
That's only possible if you live together, otherwise banging twice a day is not really feasible.
I restrict most to twice a week.
My ex gf I would see sometimes the whole weekend and a day in the week prob wed or thurs. Sometimes I'd only see her twice a week and stay over - that was enough for me but never enough for her.
I just need my ****ing space, the thought of seeing the same girl 3 times a week is disgusting to me.
I went on a tinder date last night after work, this girl rejected me coming to her or her coming to mine even though she was horny and said she wanted to sit on my d!ck. Girls and stupid rules. Anyway she wants me to go to the natural history museum with her today... that's fvcking eager and sprung.
Girl came to my place last friday and stayed til saturday afternoon when I kicked her out. She wanted to come over monday and bring me dinner.
Honestly, these girls just creep me out, and I just want my abusive violent ex that want's nothing to do with me. Maybe I'm not well.
I restrict most to twice a week.
My ex gf I would see sometimes the whole weekend and a day in the week prob wed or thurs. Sometimes I'd only see her twice a week and stay over - that was enough for me but never enough for her.
I just need my ****ing space, the thought of seeing the same girl 3 times a week is disgusting to me.
I went on a tinder date last night after work, this girl rejected me coming to her or her coming to mine even though she was horny and said she wanted to sit on my d!ck. Girls and stupid rules. Anyway she wants me to go to the natural history museum with her today... that's fvcking eager and sprung.
Girl came to my place last friday and stayed til saturday afternoon when I kicked her out. She wanted to come over monday and bring me dinner.
Honestly, these girls just creep me out, and I just want my abusive violent ex that want's nothing to do with me. Maybe I'm not well.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
#1 - I admire your sincerity
#2 - That sentence would make an interesting "about me" section of an online personal ad.