youngprodigy
Don Juan
If you’re dating a girl that gives you unlimited ***** and head, which is potential ltr or main chick, how much should you limit to for a week?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How much D do you limit them
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Depends on how long you have been seeing her and what you want out of it.
Seeing her less than a month and only want to bang her- twice a week
Less than a month and have an agreed FWB situation- bang her 3-4 times a week and enjoy it while it lasts
Less than a month and potential LTR- twice a week
What is important here is that you do what YOU want, no matter how long you have been seeing her or where you think it will go.
I would be very slow to see any chick more than 3 times a week. That way you keep it fresh, remain sort of mysterious and make her wonder about you in the mean time (which means as little texting in between seeing her as you can get away with) and allow yourself plenty of free time to do other things that you like doing (hobbies, working, hanging out with your buddies,etc).
Have fun with her and dont burn each other out.
Seeing her less than a month and only want to bang her- twice a week
Less than a month and have an agreed FWB situation- bang her 3-4 times a week and enjoy it while it lasts
Less than a month and potential LTR- twice a week
What is important here is that you do what YOU want, no matter how long you have been seeing her or where you think it will go.
I would be very slow to see any chick more than 3 times a week. That way you keep it fresh, remain sort of mysterious and make her wonder about you in the mean time (which means as little texting in between seeing her as you can get away with) and allow yourself plenty of free time to do other things that you like doing (hobbies, working, hanging out with your buddies,etc).
Have fun with her and dont burn each other out.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
wtf, FWB is 2 or 3x a day
come on guys.. im 52.
come on guys.. im 52.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
hmmm... ive a plate coming to visit Sat 3pm/Sun 8pm, I expect I will cvm no less than 3x a day
no viagra, never once
In a commited relationship sex usally averages out to 5-10x a week, averaged over years...
am i missing something about this topic?
no viagra, never once
In a commited relationship sex usally averages out to 5-10x a week, averaged over years...
am i missing something about this topic?
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Murk
Master Don Juan
That's only possible if you live together, otherwise banging twice a day is not really feasible.
I restrict most to twice a week.
My ex gf I would see sometimes the whole weekend and a day in the week prob wed or thurs. Sometimes I'd only see her twice a week and stay over - that was enough for me but never enough for her.
I just need my ****ing space, the thought of seeing the same girl 3 times a week is disgusting to me.
I went on a tinder date last night after work, this girl rejected me coming to her or her coming to mine even though she was horny and said she wanted to sit on my d!ck. Girls and stupid rules. Anyway she wants me to go to the natural history museum with her today... that's fvcking eager and sprung.
Girl came to my place last friday and stayed til saturday afternoon when I kicked her out. She wanted to come over monday and bring me dinner.
Honestly, these girls just creep me out, and I just want my abusive violent ex that want's nothing to do with me. Maybe I'm not well.
I restrict most to twice a week.
My ex gf I would see sometimes the whole weekend and a day in the week prob wed or thurs. Sometimes I'd only see her twice a week and stay over - that was enough for me but never enough for her.
I just need my ****ing space, the thought of seeing the same girl 3 times a week is disgusting to me.
I went on a tinder date last night after work, this girl rejected me coming to her or her coming to mine even though she was horny and said she wanted to sit on my d!ck. Girls and stupid rules. Anyway she wants me to go to the natural history museum with her today... that's fvcking eager and sprung.
Girl came to my place last friday and stayed til saturday afternoon when I kicked her out. She wanted to come over monday and bring me dinner.
Honestly, these girls just creep me out, and I just want my abusive violent ex that want's nothing to do with me. Maybe I'm not well.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
#1 - I admire your sincerity
#2 - That sentence would make an interesting "about me" section of an online personal ad.