"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how much attention to pay?

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this girl im practising on is basicly in everyone of my classes...till now i usually kino her and make some original and c+f remarks whenever i bump into her in the hall ways. and i get positive responses...right after that i would just walk away in a confident way and not look back.

but during class time i just chill with my buddies and even ignores her sometimes.

there are quite a few guys following her around and surronds her...but they are all afcs

now i'm not quite sure how much time i should be spending with her in class time or at school when we are pretty much in the same room everyday.

thanks to the fellowship.

another thing is should i let her or not see me flirting with ohter girls?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ4Real

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Let her see you flirting with other girls...don't look like a "player" when you do this though.
 

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Originally posted by Nzo
Let her see you flirting with other girls
exactly, flirt w/ her friends. You made the mistake of approaching the target; you should've started. She knows you're interested now. You need to backup, rewind and reset. Don't give her any real attention until shes making it a point to speak w/ you.
 
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