"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how much attention to pay?

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this girl im practising on is basicly in everyone of my classes...till now i usually kino her and make some original and c+f remarks whenever i bump into her in the hall ways. and i get positive responses...right after that i would just walk away in a confident way and not look back.

but during class time i just chill with my buddies and even ignores her sometimes.

there are quite a few guys following her around and surronds her...but they are all afcs

now i'm not quite sure how much time i should be spending with her in class time or at school when we are pretty much in the same room everyday.

thanks to the fellowship.

another thing is should i let her or not see me flirting with ohter girls?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ4Real

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Let her see you flirting with other girls...don't look like a "player" when you do this though.
 

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Originally posted by Nzo
Let her see you flirting with other girls
exactly, flirt w/ her friends. You made the mistake of approaching the target; you should've started. She knows you're interested now. You need to backup, rewind and reset. Don't give her any real attention until shes making it a point to speak w/ you.
 
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