"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how much attention to pay?

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this girl im practising on is basicly in everyone of my classes...till now i usually kino her and make some original and c+f remarks whenever i bump into her in the hall ways. and i get positive responses...right after that i would just walk away in a confident way and not look back.

but during class time i just chill with my buddies and even ignores her sometimes.

there are quite a few guys following her around and surronds her...but they are all afcs

now i'm not quite sure how much time i should be spending with her in class time or at school when we are pretty much in the same room everyday.

thanks to the fellowship.

another thing is should i let her or not see me flirting with ohter girls?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ4Real

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Let her see you flirting with other girls...don't look like a "player" when you do this though.
 

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Originally posted by Nzo
Let her see you flirting with other girls
exactly, flirt w/ her friends. You made the mistake of approaching the target; you should've started. She knows you're interested now. You need to backup, rewind and reset. Don't give her any real attention until shes making it a point to speak w/ you.
 
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