"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How masturbation affects me?

nelysses

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Im masturbating 4-5 per day. Im fixing it but i wonder how it affects my body?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The not getting laid part often precedes the excessive porn consumption and masturbation. Women send plenty of men to the rejection pile and the men cope through porn and masturbation.
That's irrelevant, you just make the necessary adjustments and try again. Giving up doesn't get you anywhere with women or with life.
 

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It also induces the grip of death as it’s been termed, again same thing happens to chicks with power tools.

I’ve been told by multiple women that they don’t understand why guys don’t finish inside them, they’ll pull out at the last minute and jerk it out. It’s because they are porn consumers and they can’t finish any other way.

Personally I won’t finish anywhere else but deep inside whatever orifice I’m in at the moment…nothing better.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Manure Spherian

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Im masturbating 4-5 per day. Im fixing it but i wonder how it affects my body?
With this frequency some have problems with sex. Some would consider this frequency constituting an addiction to masturbation. Are you watching porn too?
 

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Not using porn when you masturbate can be a healthy first step for porn addicts.
 

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A TON of reasons to stay FAR away from porn ( and why I HATE it with a passion) long read!!!

- you be watching other men's azzholes
- and ****s, which you justified as normal..
- its 50% ghey because you watch another naked man and it's arousing you...
-its setting you up for all kinds of nasty THOUGHTS;
- to elaborate to the last point; it opens demonic gates from hell towards dark thoughts and places;
-to elaborate further: because you'll need more than vanilla bangbros to get off at SOME point ;
-to elaborate futher: you might end up watching trannies/incest porn ( things that are actually highlighted on front pages of huge porn sites, meaning it becomes mainstream and more and more men watch this shyte

-its sets you up to pay for porn
To elaborate: Only fans ,live jasmin and chatrubate are youe next step;paying to "control " women live
- its makes you the ultimate TRICK

-If messes with your perception of love, women, sex, your own sexuality
-it's might literally injure you (wrist, D1CK, piss hole, balls, back from same jerking -leaning position)
-it hurts /damages your eyes due to darkness vs bright screen light
-its takes away your honor
- erectile dysfunction is waiting for ya

-it "satisfies " you
-to a point where p0rn becomes your GF
-it makes you chase/LOVE degenerate women
-it will push you into visiting hookers
-it will push you into relationships with women beneath your own smv(fatties uglies ugly fatties
- it will make you pedestalize p00sy
- itakes you depressed because you want nothing more but p0rn/p00sy /women

-it will take and thus cost time
-it will make you come late no pun intended
-it will make you feck bad
-due to too tight grip from your own hand
- it will desensitize you(any man with "performance anxiety ADMITTED he's a p0rn addict)
 

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This topic has been beat to death (pun intended). My take on it is that, if you want to actually want to become intimate with women and be more productive in everyday life, then you masturbate as little as possible.

My reasoning for this conclusion is that masturbation and/or porn can spoil you. Having seemingly endless options of erotica at a few mouse clicks away can cause someone to neglect their social skill building that is needed for actual women and everyday life. There is also a threat of de-sensitizing yourself. There comes a point to where the same big-tit babes you whacked off to every day for the last several months, can no longer get you going and you are forced to resort to more questionable erotica. I believe this is partially why hentai has gotten popular. It is depressing to think that the guy that has "Dragonball Z rule 34" in his search history was probably once a normal dude.
 

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Some guys are just so oversexed that they'll masturbate 10 times a day PLUS bang whatever woman they can find. Those guys might burn out young though, I don't know.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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4-5 times per day?

Christ man, 4-5x a week and I feel like I'm in a complete downward spiral. Twice a month is what I consider reasonable. Stop watching porn.
4-5 times per day means he hardly has any energy left for any other productive activities...
 

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Yeah. 4-5 times a day means that at minimum he is spending A LOT OF TIME beating it. That time naturally has to be pulled (pun intended) from being productive and engaging in self-improvement. Add in the dopamine hits that many times each day and it will have a negative impact ultimately. A bit less often would be recommended.
 

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I dunno how it effects your body. When we got the Internet I was 16 years old... circa 1996... i was a maniac... and even back then only mustered the energy for 4-5 rounds... I remember feeling drained literally. No energy.

the main issue is could you be spending those hours doing something more beneficial to your self development?
 

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When we got the Internet I was 16 years old... circa 1996... i was a maniac... and even back then only mustered the energy for 4-5 rounds... I remember feeling drained literally. No energy.
The day every modern young boys mojo dies.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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