"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How masturbation affects me?

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Im masturbating 4-5 per day. Im fixing it but i wonder how it affects my body?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The not getting laid part often precedes the excessive porn consumption and masturbation. Women send plenty of men to the rejection pile and the men cope through porn and masturbation.
That's irrelevant, you just make the necessary adjustments and try again. Giving up doesn't get you anywhere with women or with life.
 

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It also induces the grip of death as it’s been termed, again same thing happens to chicks with power tools.

I’ve been told by multiple women that they don’t understand why guys don’t finish inside them, they’ll pull out at the last minute and jerk it out. It’s because they are porn consumers and they can’t finish any other way.

Personally I won’t finish anywhere else but deep inside whatever orifice I’m in at the moment…nothing better.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Im masturbating 4-5 per day. Im fixing it but i wonder how it affects my body?
With this frequency some have problems with sex. Some would consider this frequency constituting an addiction to masturbation. Are you watching porn too?
 

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Not using porn when you masturbate can be a healthy first step for porn addicts.
 

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A TON of reasons to stay FAR away from porn ( and why I HATE it with a passion) long read!!!

- you be watching other men's azzholes
- and ****s, which you justified as normal..
- its 50% ghey because you watch another naked man and it's arousing you...
-its setting you up for all kinds of nasty THOUGHTS;
- to elaborate to the last point; it opens demonic gates from hell towards dark thoughts and places;
-to elaborate further: because you'll need more than vanilla bangbros to get off at SOME point ;
-to elaborate futher: you might end up watching trannies/incest porn ( things that are actually highlighted on front pages of huge porn sites, meaning it becomes mainstream and more and more men watch this shyte

-its sets you up to pay for porn
To elaborate: Only fans ,live jasmin and chatrubate are youe next step;paying to "control " women live
- its makes you the ultimate TRICK

-If messes with your perception of love, women, sex, your own sexuality
-it's might literally injure you (wrist, D1CK, piss hole, balls, back from same jerking -leaning position)
-it hurts /damages your eyes due to darkness vs bright screen light
-its takes away your honor
- erectile dysfunction is waiting for ya

-it "satisfies " you
-to a point where p0rn becomes your GF
-it makes you chase/LOVE degenerate women
-it will push you into visiting hookers
-it will push you into relationships with women beneath your own smv(fatties uglies ugly fatties
- it will make you pedestalize p00sy
- itakes you depressed because you want nothing more but p0rn/p00sy /women

-it will take and thus cost time
-it will make you come late no pun intended
-it will make you feck bad
-due to too tight grip from your own hand
- it will desensitize you(any man with "performance anxiety ADMITTED he's a p0rn addict)
 

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This topic has been beat to death (pun intended). My take on it is that, if you want to actually want to become intimate with women and be more productive in everyday life, then you masturbate as little as possible.

My reasoning for this conclusion is that masturbation and/or porn can spoil you. Having seemingly endless options of erotica at a few mouse clicks away can cause someone to neglect their social skill building that is needed for actual women and everyday life. There is also a threat of de-sensitizing yourself. There comes a point to where the same big-tit babes you whacked off to every day for the last several months, can no longer get you going and you are forced to resort to more questionable erotica. I believe this is partially why hentai has gotten popular. It is depressing to think that the guy that has "Dragonball Z rule 34" in his search history was probably once a normal dude.
 

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Some guys are just so oversexed that they'll masturbate 10 times a day PLUS bang whatever woman they can find. Those guys might burn out young though, I don't know.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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4-5 times per day?

Christ man, 4-5x a week and I feel like I'm in a complete downward spiral. Twice a month is what I consider reasonable. Stop watching porn.
4-5 times per day means he hardly has any energy left for any other productive activities...
 

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Yeah. 4-5 times a day means that at minimum he is spending A LOT OF TIME beating it. That time naturally has to be pulled (pun intended) from being productive and engaging in self-improvement. Add in the dopamine hits that many times each day and it will have a negative impact ultimately. A bit less often would be recommended.
 

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I dunno how it effects your body. When we got the Internet I was 16 years old... circa 1996... i was a maniac... and even back then only mustered the energy for 4-5 rounds... I remember feeling drained literally. No energy.

the main issue is could you be spending those hours doing something more beneficial to your self development?
 

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When we got the Internet I was 16 years old... circa 1996... i was a maniac... and even back then only mustered the energy for 4-5 rounds... I remember feeling drained literally. No energy.
The day every modern young boys mojo dies.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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