"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How many you guys go to tanning beds?

Ricky

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I know the risks, but thinking about going a bit just to get some color to my current Casper like complexion!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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blong1068

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I haven't gone in a couple months, but i have a lot previously. I will start going again in a couple weeks. I just feel so much better about myself with a nice tan.
 
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I tan pretty easily, so I did about 6-8 "base" runs in about 2-3 weeks. Now I just go maybe 2-3 times every few months to keep myself kinda tanned. I dont wanna look like a sun-tan superman or anything like that!
 

Barbillus

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I go about once a week when it is cold out. Once it gets warm again I will up it to 3 times a week until I get a good tan, then abck to twice.

I ahve very Irish complextion so when I go I get a nice little tan.

However, I havent gone in about 3 weeks and am giving my skin a rest for a while.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fred Da Head

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I bought myself a 100-minute card at the gym before the holidays.. Very cheap! ..But I only used it once 'cause I haven't been in the gym in a few weeks...


I still got a bit of the tan I had last summer, too. lol
 

DJinArizona

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I just started going to tanning beds, I usually have a dark tan in summer and it's always way easier to meet chicks and get laid when I'm tan. It makes your eyes stand out more and your teeth look whiter and is overall more attractive. Be careful with the beds though, it's easy to overdo it, when starting out go when you know you don't have dates or are going out for at least a couple of days just in case you burn.
 

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Can someone say, GEORGE HAMILTON???? LOL

Yet another reason I'm glad I'm not white, no offense. :D

I'm just kidding.

Hey, at least it saves me money. I'll go get my self a nice sweater or something for the price of a membership at a tanning place.

HAPPY TANNING!
 
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