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How many women 35+ are remotely attractive?

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The two biggest things that older women can't overcome no matter how good her genetics or how she takes care of herself, are neck and hands. Those two things truly tell how hold a woman can be since skin cremes can only go so far and...
The hands before moisterizer do tell the truth. On the flip side, we tend to be a cynical overly critical bunch. There are plenty of 35+ very attractive babes who are into their health and fitness. The ones who decided to be couch potatoes, are just like the guys who made the same decision path.
 

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Honestly quite a few but in terms of total percentage maybe 20-25%. Obviously if you see 1000 of them that would mean 200-250 are attractive but overall it would not be that many
 

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None. Everything is not evolutionary though. People have their likes and dislikes and others follow certain group thinks.
also, attention is still desired by even the post wall. this is still one of the best ways to get it.
 

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The difference between a 30 year old and 45 year woman is so vast they shouldn't be categorized together.
you could be right. I do see 30ish and 45ish and between that are ok. I think that a 45-year-old behaves better on average than 30 years old. will pick a submissive 45 years old smaller and well kept, over a 30-year-old self-entitled any time. if compare to a < 30 years old maybe not.
 

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I was looking through my old posts and saw a thread called “how many women under 35 are attractive?” and had a little question of my own. Most women over 35 and especially over 40 turn me right off automatically.
Okay, at 27 I felt the same way.... at 52... well it is all relative. I do agree that most women past 35 are not that attractive as a general rule, but if she takes care of herself, eats right, exercises she'll do fine.

Anyway, you can say the same thing about men over 35 are not that particularly attractive either compared to younger men, but if they take care of themselves they'll look fine.

35 for me was a REAL turning point, until then I could eat whatever the fvck I wanted. Seriously I changed nothing of the way I did things, and within a matter of months put on 10 lbs, when I turned 36, Jesus... it was the only time in my life that I was over 200lbs... I still have some of the clothes I wore back then, and it's embarrassing how big those are on me. It didn't help that I was married at the time and lost a lot of motivation. This happens to women too.

The biggest difference is women grade men on more than just looks: women are judged by their looks to a much greater extent. The difference is finding the motivation and having the discipline to do something about it.

One more thing about aging women.... if they lead a rough life in their 20s... it will more dramatically affect them in their 30s than men. They lay out in the sun, get tans... they drink like men... smoke like men. Also, having kids really messes up a woman's body, after that they will never look the same... don't get me wrong, they can look perfectly fine, but they are never the same, most women over 30 will have had at least one kid. Exposure to sun will age you faster than anything and you don't really see this until you hit your 30s. Alcohol will mess up women much more dramatically than it will men. A man... well rough looking skin and a few wrinkles can be attractive, and if a man dramatically changes his habits in his 30s, he can overcome a wild and crazy life in their 20s.

I know plenty of women in their late 30s and 40s that look good... but all of them take care of themselves and few had a crazy wild 20s.

Anyway... wait until you hit 50! My God, if you guys knew what I eat on a daily basis you would think there is no way a man can live on that... but when you are older, and still want to look good, you have to. When you get older, the cartilage between your joints start to break down and it does make working out a lot harder.... you really have to change the way you exercise. You can still do it, but it takes a lot more discipline. Many women just do not have the discipline to make changes needed when they age... sorry this is a fact. Many make excuses and just will not change.
 

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From what I've observed, it really comes down to household income.

If you cruise out to the suburbs where the median income is higher, you'll find a higher percentage of 35+ women looking fit and attractive.

If you cruise into the lower income neighborhoods, you'll find a much lower percentage of 35+ women who look attractive.

It really just come down to diet, exercise, drug abuse and stress levels.....

In the rich areas, women can afford lean foods and gym memberships, and they can afford child care to give them free time to work out.... And they also work white collar jobs that are less physically demanding and thus places less wear and tear on their bodies....

In regards to demographics, White women and Latinas tend to have a higher percentage of women who qualify as MILFs while Asian and Black females have lower percentages.... Middle Eastern women also generally don't age well either...

..... we can observe this in porn where the majority of MILF pornstars are White or Latinas, we rarely see Asian or Black MILF pornstars....
 

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In regards to demographics, White women and Latinas tend to have a higher percentage of women who qualify as MILFs while Asian and Black females have lower percentages.... Middle Eastern women also generally don't age well either...

..... we can observe this in porn where the majority of MILF pornstars are White or Latinas, we rarely see Asian or Black MILF pornstars....
Skin pigmentation has a lot to do with resistance to aging, mostly because of the sun. White women tend to age the fastest for this reason. Asians, blacks, and non-white Latinas age slower.
 

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Also with more stresses and self created mental stresses of the younger generation, I've noticed a lot more premature graying of the hair with younger people too, as early as 30yo.

Just some observations...
Lately I've begun to think that greying is (a lot )down to diet...

I went grey during my 40s, and at the time I did think it was down to age/stress... but then at 52, after breaking up with ex-wife and divorcing, I decided to lose weight (I had let myself go during marriage and was close to 295lbs)
Nine months later, and almost 90lbs lighter, my grey was slowly dissipating, and I've now been back to my original colour for around 3 yrs.

I was a terrible sugar-fiend back in the day, and I lost the wight by strictly avoiding refined sugars, including those in processed foods.
My Doc. was at a loss to explain the return of my natural colour, but I'm convinced I went grey so early because of processed foods and all the hidden sugars in them.
 

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From what I've observed, it really comes down to household income.

If you cruise out to the suburbs where the median income is higher, you'll find a higher percentage of 35+ women looking fit and attractive.

If you cruise into the lower income neighborhoods, you'll find a much lower percentage of 35+ women who look attractive.

It really just come down to diet, exercise, drug abuse and stress levels.....

In the rich areas, women can afford lean foods and gym memberships, and they can afford child care to give them free time to work out.... And they also work white collar jobs that are less physically demanding and thus places less wear and tear on their bodies....

In regards to demographics, White women and Latinas tend to have a higher percentage of women who qualify as MILFs while Asian and Black females have lower percentages.... Middle Eastern women also generally don't age well either...

..... we can observe this in porn where the majority of MILF pornstars are White or Latinas, we rarely see Asian or Black MILF pornstars....
I was just like “yeah agree...agree...” until I saw you said blacks and Asians age worse than white women. White women age the worst especially in low class areas.
 

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Skin pigmentation has a lot to do with resistance to aging, mostly because of the sun. White women tend to age the fastest for this reason. Asians, blacks, and non-white Latinas age slower.
While we're on the topic of race, any idea why Native American women age so badly?
 

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Buncha fags in this forum or what? Some of the hottest women are over 35.. more full bodied, more experienced, less games, less bitchy,.

I think alot of you guys just lack experience or want to put on a front of some kind.
 

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I'd say 5-10% at best. However, some women actually seem to peak in their 30s, which is sad because less than 5% of women in their 40s still look good.

I especially noticed this when going back and watching Seinfeld; many of the women he beds are in their 30s and are still quite good looking and feminine.




Another example that comes to mind is the chick from Men in Black who was in her late 30s and super sexy.





Lana Del Ray is 35 and is still a goddess.

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Even with little/no makeup she's still quite good looking for her age with a good body just thick enough (imo).

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Buncha fags in this forum or what? Some of the hottest women are over 35.. more full bodied, more experienced, less games, less bitchy,.

I think alot of you guys just lack experience or want to put on a front of some kind.
You could argue it's a "buffer" to rejection as Rollo refers to it, by claiming to not be attracted to certain types of women, you protect yourself from rejection. However, the majority of women over 35 are jaded, bitter, naggy, entitled, delusional, and horribly aged.

Most women peak in their late teens/early 20s and hit the wall in their mid to late 20s.
 
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Why would you believe such a thing? I thank my lucky stars I pick friends that think better than this.
It’s because of what I said. Skin pigmentation determines the rate of sun damage. Black women for example have more resistant skin to sun damage. Sun exposure is the most prominent factor in premature aging (aka wrinkles).
 

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It’s because of what I said. Skin pigmentation determines the rate of sun damage. Black women for example have more resistant skin to sun damage. Sun exposure is the most prominent factor in premature aging (aka wrinkles).
Asian women tend to age the best though. There are probably other factors such as genetically predetermined levels of collagen production.
 

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Buncha fags in this forum or what? Some of the hottest women are over 35.. more full bodied, more experienced, less games, less bitchy,.

I think alot of you guys just lack experience or want to put on a front of some kind.
Plenty old ladies for you then lol.
 

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Absolutely. I have nearly all my hair and just a little gray above my ears.

It is my belief. Can’t prove it. But alcohol, mainly beer, makes for gray hair. Alcohol IS sugar and goes straight into your system.
I know of some men that drink early to late every day. they also take care of business. some with great looking hair, 50-70.
 
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