I was looking through my old posts and saw a thread called “how many women under 35 are attractive?” and had a little question of my own. Most women over 35 and especially over 40 turn me right off automatically.
Okay, at 27 I felt the same way.... at 52... well it is all relative. I do agree that most women past 35 are not that attractive as a general rule, but if she takes care of herself, eats right, exercises she'll do fine.
Anyway, you can say the same thing about men over 35 are not that particularly attractive either compared to younger men, but if they take care of themselves they'll look fine.
35 for me was a REAL turning point, until then I could eat whatever the fvck I wanted. Seriously I changed nothing of the way I did things, and within a matter of months put on 10 lbs, when I turned 36, Jesus... it was the only time in my life that I was over 200lbs... I still have some of the clothes I wore back then, and it's embarrassing how big those are on me. It didn't help that I was married at the time and lost a lot of motivation. This happens to women too.
The biggest difference is women grade men on more than just looks: women are judged by their looks to a much greater extent. The difference is finding the motivation and having the discipline to do something about it.
One more thing about aging women.... if they lead a rough life in their 20s... it will more dramatically affect them in their 30s than men. They lay out in the sun, get tans... they drink like men... smoke like men. Also, having kids really messes up a woman's body, after that they will never look the same... don't get me wrong, they can look perfectly fine, but they are never the same, most women over 30 will have had at least one kid. Exposure to sun will age you faster than anything and you don't really see this until you hit your 30s. Alcohol will mess up women much more dramatically than it will men. A man... well rough looking skin and a few wrinkles can be attractive, and if a man dramatically changes his habits in his 30s, he can overcome a wild and crazy life in their 20s.
I know plenty of women in their late 30s and 40s that look good... but all of them take care of themselves and few had a crazy wild 20s.
Anyway... wait until you hit 50! My God, if you guys knew what I eat on a daily basis you would think there is no way a man can live on that... but when you are older, and still want to look good, you have to. When you get older, the cartilage between your joints start to break down and it does make working out a lot harder.... you really have to change the way you exercise. You can still do it, but it takes a lot more discipline. Many women just do not have the discipline to make changes needed when they age... sorry this is a fact. Many make excuses and just will not change.