"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Last wednesday (18th) was the last day of school for me. I took this opportunity to get this cute girl's number. I had some small talk with her in class but picked up from her body language that she was digging me. Now the day I got her number I also won some tickets to a comedy club in the city (NYC) so I told her I'd call her to make arrangements so we can meet up. I called her yesterday (monday 23rd) because I went to a bar in the city on friday and caught a cold which prevented me from talking to her earlier. My question is that Im not sure how long to wait for her to call me back, and if she doesn't should I call her back. I don't want to seem desperate but I also don't want to lack persistance. Any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thats a good call, I have another girl on back up that I wanted to shoot pool with [and there happens to be a stripclub next door incase she's feeling adventurest ;)] but you think best bet is to just nix this girl if she doesn't call me? I just want to make sure shes not testing me to see if im intrested or not.
I must say that regaurdless, I am enjoy the learning experiance.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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