"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Last wednesday (18th) was the last day of school for me. I took this opportunity to get this cute girl's number. I had some small talk with her in class but picked up from her body language that she was digging me. Now the day I got her number I also won some tickets to a comedy club in the city (NYC) so I told her I'd call her to make arrangements so we can meet up. I called her yesterday (monday 23rd) because I went to a bar in the city on friday and caught a cold which prevented me from talking to her earlier. My question is that Im not sure how long to wait for her to call me back, and if she doesn't should I call her back. I don't want to seem desperate but I also don't want to lack persistance. Any advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thats a good call, I have another girl on back up that I wanted to shoot pool with [and there happens to be a stripclub next door incase she's feeling adventurest ;)] but you think best bet is to just nix this girl if she doesn't call me? I just want to make sure shes not testing me to see if im intrested or not.
I must say that regaurdless, I am enjoy the learning experiance.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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