“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
How many times have you been rejected?
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why not focus on the positive? Focus on increasing the number of approaches you make, no matter the outcome. Focus on how much better of a conversationalist you've become. Focus on how much more you can bench press. Just focus on the positive and stop setting yourself up for failure.
Francisco d'Anconia: err.. i dont see rejection as being something bad... rejection is the key to sexual prosperity... and this thread is for interest sakes... If someone has not been rejected in some way or another, then that should be a reality check for them that tells them that they are not approaching enough, etc...
And one more thing.. a technique rather... Try going out and telling yourself "ok, my mission tonight/today is to go to xxx and get rejected by xxx amount of girls[/I" then u go and approach girls and u just say what u want and dont give a sh!t if u get rejected.. weather they reject you or not, this is an amazing wat to uplift your confidence... and yes, i know that you are probably thinking that i am crazy and talking out of my ass.... i also thought that the 1st time i thought of it, but once i tried it, the results were suprising... in a good way that is. (The result for me was that i found myself able to go up to people without any fear of the outcome etc of approaching them.)
Laterz...
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Alpine
Master Don Juan
lolOriginally posted by fuzzx
played the most rejections game at a club about 20 times, believe it or not, I didn't win
... yeah.. its great fun... and the one of the only games that u actually WANT to loose in.. hehe... but in the end, u DO feel alot more confident and "approachable"... u agree?Laterz...
CableLight
Master Don Juan
Besides, being shot down is only part of it. The real thing to keep in perspective is being able to try, and how thankfull you'll be in 40 years when you don't need to look back on the situation and say "I wonder what would have happend..."
diablo
Master Don Juan
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Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
Im 18, I was rejected when I was 13 and once when I was now 18. Thats twice. Ive had nearly 100 girls since the age of 15 till now...I doubt anyone can match that number. So getting rejected doesnt mean you going to be succesful. Twice is alot for me, and ive had 100, basically some of you are saying If i got rejected 10 times I should have about 500 girls to my "little back book" ?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
Ive made 81 approaches in 3 weeks... I get rejected enough for any 4 of you =)
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
lol that is mean! You should have smacked the biatch right there!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
You do have a point. If people are getting rejections because they aren't trying there is little value.
Rejections can be a sign that you are striving to always improve, try new things and learn.
Shooting fish in the same barrell is not the same as hitting one in the ocean.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Just like Lifeforce. I used to hardly approach at all many years ago, then had dozens of rejections per month for a while. Now I pick my shots ... or very often they pick me. I can pretty much gauge IL at a glance these days. I have very high percentages as far as #s leading to dates and dates getting pretty physical.
Totally agreed that anyone over 18 who has <10 rejections is not making enough of an effort or is so desirable he need not be here except to advise others.
Props to TonyTheTigerOI. You must be doing something right and/or looking sharp to make that many appproaches and have such a good %. Do tell more. We may be able to learn a thing or three.
If you wait for that "look" from a girl you will cut down your rejection rate drastically but unfortuanately girls that are interested don't always give the "look".
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Fatality
but unfortuanately girls that are interested don't always give the "look".
Sometimes, girls that AREN'T interested give the look.