How many #'s should I be trying to get a week?

[SharinganUser]

Simple practical question. How many #'s should I be trying to get a week?

I don't approach many women on a weekly basis, but now that my confidence is up and I think I should start being more proactive. I've found that shyness is really just a bad habit and when I've worked on it, even though the shyness was still there, my body would just take over and my mouth would open and I would say something funny. But the last month I haven't been in the habit (of approaching) and didn't get back into it until last thursday.

What can I do to keep the ball rolling? How many # closes should I be aiming for on a weekly/daily basis?

 

[Demon]

As many as necessary. Don't set an arbitrary number.

 

[donArjun]

I've asked this question before,

you can't go on #-closes a week , ..its not in your control how many
you can however do solid approaches..

the I am at work from 8 to 7 Mon-Fri by 7 pm I am so tried....plus you want to make sure you are groomed and well kept before going into the field.

you should be able to say " Hi, my name is, whats your name ? " and feel that is it not forcing on her...

* you should be able to go up to her and have a good 5 minute conversatin, if she doesn't have that much interest in you to have a 5 min conversation, then You can rest assured there won't be much out of it.

* you should always be number closing...and feel comfortable shes going to give it.

if you can't met those requirements, then it wasn't an approach ,dont count it and go back and do it again.

Again I will say it again, its not THE NUMBER of approaches you do..
Its the quality of approach and how confidently you do it. I 've told you
what is a good approach is....just work on doing a good one of those each day....not easy in its own right.

my recommendation , I am getting more into acting skills as I feel that having the ability to "turn on" and and be able to get into the mindset when your in the field would be great. Like for example, I have work and parents who sometimes are on my mind, which might make me a little unconfident or tired out, but being able to do both at the same time, manage my job, living at home, and Djing but being able to be sharp, to suddently turn "on" a more extrovert of myself when necessary. It has some to do with you own self image, and thats another long dicussion ( basically you don't want to bash youself down all the time, and accentuate the positive) ...try to be flexible with what you've got , to take advantage of what ever opportunities you've got now is far more important of a lesson to learn in life, thats more of teh important lesson to learn in life, is that nothing in life is a perfect rose bud or is perfectly set for you. YOu have to learn that you need to be flexible, adjust yourself accordingly learn and have that will to move on. thats is what makes you a better person or a better man, that attitude , that mindset ..

That is what you need to train youself for..

to become a "real" man ?

 

[skip2mylou781]

3 solid #s is better than 20 random #s........focus on getting #s from good prospects that could turn into dates.........but play the #s game (get as many numbers as humanly possible, use the internet also)

use the internet - sunday night for 2 hours, just message 200 girls the same exact thing, and when u get home from work lets say on tuesday nightm u will have 50 screen names waiting for u and u could easily get 10 numbers right there already! Read my myspace instructions

 

[donArjun]

also, life is a balancing act...you have to try to achieve a balance. its not all just about the numbers. thats is where the real success occurs. anyway, i think I've hijacked your thread enough. peace

 

[cyp6]

When i was practicing the same thing a while back, what I did was tried to get every girls number I could, weather ugly or hot. The way you have to think is this, all your doing when you aproch a girl is giving them the opertunity to give you thier number, then it becomes less like your tring to take some thing from them, but its more like them tring to give you some thing.