parkthebus
Master Don Juan
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I've read so many different answers and reasons to this question you wouldn't believe. How many reps/sets should you do and why? What are the different outcomes?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
And how many sets per muscle per week (or workout)?In short, it doesn't matter. It's made out to be a mountain when it's a molehill. But I personally prefer the higher end, I've been doing 8 reps for a long time now and recently switched to 12 because I feel it gives me more control and thus better stimulation. I also mix it up with drop sets, I'll put on a weight I can't do for more than 4-8 reps and then I lower it and crank out 8-4 more. Just do what feels good for you.
I have three main movements: t-bar row, dips and one leg press. I do 3 sets of those twice a week, 3 other sets for each muscle twice a week, I usually make every last set of an exercise a drop set, and work out 4 times a week. That's basically it, there are some more details but I won't bother with them unless you want to know because it's not necessary.And how many sets per muscle per week (or workout)?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.