how many plates [can] are you spinning?

[md3sign]

I'm relatively new to this and I only have 2 solid plates going right now, trying to add another one but so far no luck. It's working out great, but I still find myself having to really tightly schedule everything else (work school gym). I wouldn't mind having 3-4 actually. So, how many do you have in the works, what's the most you've had going (by plates I mean those you've seen on a regular basis for at least a few weeks) at one time and how did it affect everything else?

 

[Ace of Flames]

I have one that's always spinning in the background, and then I had another when I was with my ex. So 2.

Right now I only have that constant one. Meh...

 

[AckeDman]

2 possibly 3.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

I've had around 8 going at once.. Keep in mind, these are just girls I'd meet online, bang and they'd call again a couple weeks later and want some more. It got kinda silly... Frequently, I would hit a different girl on Fri, Sat and Sun. Ahh...2005...lol. Spinning that many girls is not easy though -- I'd get one girl's story mixed up with a different girl..I'd bring up a topic that I thought one girl was talking about and she would say, "I don't know what you're talking about" or the worst was when I asked a girl about that tattoo I saw on her back when she didn't have a tat - it was on a girl I hit the night before :nervous: She got really pissed b/c she knew I was talking about a different girl. Eventually, the ones I didn't want to fcuk anymore got the hint that I wasn't interested anymore, when I'd tell them I was busy every time they wanted to stop by.

Currently, I have 3 f-buddies. Ages 19, 26 and 31. When one starts feeling horny, she'll email or text me something like, "Hi, babe" or "What are you doing tonight?", then she'll come over. I don't call them and we don't talk for more than 5 min, unless they're at my place. Strictly sex. :cheer:

 

[md3sign]

I feel ya on the stories issue. Haven't had it happen yet (knock on wood), but it's definitely crossed my mind more than once and I would have to catch myself before saying something I wasn't 100% sure was accurate. 3 sounds like a pretty good number without interfering too much with your normal life, especially when your plates take YOU out :rockon:

 

[sexxyback]

2 or 3 max for me

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Four is a good number for me. Any more and I begin forgetting who's who, way too much work.

 

[Chemistry]

At the minute only 1 chick because I don't really have any time whatsoever for more... casual fvck buddies are the name of the game, but I don't know if they count towards this thread because they don't really require any kind of maintenance...

3 is a comfortable number if I'm trying to juggle though...

 

[Raikojo17]

2, maybe 3. i usually focus more on one and on go out with one. I leave the others as considerable options in case the first doesnt work out.
cant spin anymore than that tho, i prefer to have some time to myself instead of going to 10 different HB's

 

[Drum&Bass]

I only focus on 1 girl at a time, I don't date 2nd or 3rd best, (how do the guys over 25 find the time and effort to date more than 1 girl ?? do you care about them?)

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...how do the guys over 25 find the time and effort to date more than 1 girl...

We know the difference between dating and spinning plates.

 

[PRMoon]

3 right now. 3-4 is the top number i can do without going nuts. The phone calls the text messages both at inconvinent times, it starts getting to be too much of a hastle.

 

[Hydroblunt]

I've had around 8 going at once.. Keep in mind, these are just girls I'd meet online, bang and they'd call again a couple weeks later and want some more. It got kinda silly... Frequently, I would hit a different girl on Fri, Sat and Sun. Ahh...2005...lol. Spinning that many girls is not easy though -- I'd get one girl's story mixed up with a different girl..I'd bring up a topic that I thought one girl was talking about and she would say, "I don't know what you're talking about" or the worst was when I asked a girl about that tattoo I saw on her back when she didn't have a tat - it was on a girl I hit the night before :nervous: She got really pissed b/c she knew I was talking about a different girl. Eventually, the ones I didn't want to fcuk anymore got the hint that I wasn't interested anymore, when I'd tell them I was busy every time they wanted to stop by.

Currently, I have 3 f-buddies. Ages 19, 26 and 31. When one starts feeling horny, she'll email or text me something like, "Hi, babe" or "What are you doing tonight?", then she'll come over. I don't call them and we don't talk for more than 5 min, unless they're at my place. Strictly sex. :cheer:

LOL Dude, that's awesome. You're the online pimp.

One main, one sub main and I'm trying to work on these 2 girls that work by my apartment to get a F-buddy thing going.
The main is a really good girl, wife material, but Im nowhere near ready for that and neither is she. She's is pretty busy but always ready to make some plans. Awesome girl but I can't quite tell where we're at and whether Im handling it right. Sub-main is a girl that works at my gym, this may be a mistake.
I think I need to restart fresh and use the knowledge of this forum to see if I can do better.

 

[PRMoon]

Woohoo I got plate number 4 going! And all was right with the world.

I'm amped about this last one because it's the hot asian I've been feinding after for a month and a half now. That's the last one though. I can't deal with more than four. If I want another one, I'll have to disqualify and cut contact with one because there isn't enough time in the week for my tactics to work on more then 4 at a time.

 

[LA_Chico]

3 bro