"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how many people here are gonna be positive and happy on valentines day

BLUEox117

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how many of you will be excited and enjoying yourself on valentines day.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SELF-MASTERY

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I'm happy everday.

I'm not sure if I'll have a date or not.
 

izza

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Yo man, screw Valentine's day. It's like the ultimate AFC holiday, celebrating the blatantly false and painfully misleading misconceptions our society has about love. Plus it encourages card, flower and chocolate-giving, sappy poetry, and general worship of women who, as they take craps just like us men, I can fairly say don't deserve such adulation.

In case you couldn't tell, I don't have a date. :D But I'm going to enjoy V-day more than ever before.

Izza
 
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Eh, it's just another day. I'll send an e-card to somebody demanding she send me flowers and cook me a steak or something (or call her a fat xxxxxx, that works too).

Even if I had a girlfriend I wouldn't pay much attention to vday.
 

Climax

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Why not...

I'll be seeing my chick on V-day, and i DID get her a gift.... if i run into a day that is dedicated to love, then why not:rolleyes: I'll act like i always do (the greatest lover the world has ever seen:cool: ), but i'll throw in a little gift to show that i "care":D

I agree that V-day IS over-rated, but i guess it wont hurt to do something "extra" special on that day;)


Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don_Joffe

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If you guys are only going to be happy because you will have a girl on valentines day then you should shoot yourself, what have we been reading in the bible? Dont make the girl the centre of our live, have other HOBBIES that will make you happy? So? If you dont have a girl on valentines day? BIG DEAL! Go meet one and if you dont enjoy the hobbies you do...
 
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InsidiousNstinct

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how many of you will be excited and enjoying yourself on valentines day

HELL YEAH IM GONNA ENJOY IT!

I'll be 19:D
 

CableLight

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Yeah...I'll enjoy it. Found a lady :cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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