"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how many people here are gonna be positive and happy on valentines day
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SELF-MASTERY
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I'm not sure if I'll have a date or not.
izza
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Yo man, screw Valentine's day. It's like the ultimate AFC holiday, celebrating the blatantly false and painfully misleading misconceptions our society has about love. Plus it encourages card, flower and chocolate-giving, sappy poetry, and general worship of women who, as they take craps just like us men, I can fairly say don't deserve such adulation.
In case you couldn't tell, I don't have a date.
But I'm going to enjoy V-day more than ever before.Izza
Even if I had a girlfriend I wouldn't pay much attention to vday.
I'll be seeing my chick on V-day, and i DID get her a gift.... if i run into a day that is dedicated to love, then why not
I'll act like i always do (the greatest lover the world has ever seen ), but i'll throw in a little gift to show that i "care" I agree that V-day IS over-rated, but i guess it wont hurt to do something "extra" special on that day
Laterz...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Don_Joffe
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diablo
Master Don Juan
Once again keep your personal arguing off of the threads in the forum.
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HELL YEAH IM GONNA ENJOY IT!
I'll be 19
CableLight
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
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