"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how many people here are gonna be positive and happy on valentines day
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SELF-MASTERY
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I'm not sure if I'll have a date or not.
izza
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Yo man, screw Valentine's day. It's like the ultimate AFC holiday, celebrating the blatantly false and painfully misleading misconceptions our society has about love. Plus it encourages card, flower and chocolate-giving, sappy poetry, and general worship of women who, as they take craps just like us men, I can fairly say don't deserve such adulation.
In case you couldn't tell, I don't have a date.
But I'm going to enjoy V-day more than ever before.Izza
Even if I had a girlfriend I wouldn't pay much attention to vday.
I'll be seeing my chick on V-day, and i DID get her a gift.... if i run into a day that is dedicated to love, then why not
I'll act like i always do (the greatest lover the world has ever seen ), but i'll throw in a little gift to show that i "care" I agree that V-day IS over-rated, but i guess it wont hurt to do something "extra" special on that day
Laterz...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Don_Joffe
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diablo
Master Don Juan
Once again keep your personal arguing off of the threads in the forum.
InsidiousNstinct
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HELL YEAH IM GONNA ENJOY IT!
I'll be 19
CableLight
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Ben