"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how many people here are gonna be negative and sad on valentines day
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
what kind of thread is THIS? *sigh*
Anyways... V-day is another day, much like any other day of the year... so asking this is just like asking " So who is gonna be sad and pissed off tomorrow" .... The answer... we dont know.
Laterz...
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I will be 'cos there's a good chance I may be guilt tripped into taking someone out.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
Valentines Day is a day where love is reunited, giving and taking is again relieved and its an excuse to find love or to find a partner. Its just like Human Rights Day or Independence day on those days we celebrate the rights of us as humans on earth and independence day we celebrate our independence as a country (USA). So valentines day we celebrate our love for our partner or we celebrate the concept of love as a whole. Yes, it may be just another day but its a GREAT EXCUSE to find someone in your life and its also a proven fact that during this period from 10th february to 14th, the girls are more open to you because all girls want to be loved and want to be kissed, im telling you now no girl wants to be alone on valentines day. So in that context aequitas is correct that it is just another day, but a SPECIAL day(dont forget that). Valentines day is here to stay, its not going, it wont be done away with, so why fight it? Rather, get used to it, and use it to our DON JUAN advantage by meeting girls, getting presents and finding a partner to love.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
diablo
Master Don Juan
By the way, Anything Else... and a last thing... this thread is probably one of the most pessimistic I've come across in a while. I mean, come on people!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Ben
However, it turned out really well. One of the best I can remember in fact.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I had 4 girls I could have asked out for valentines day! But of course, I had to take my girflriend. You need to be approaching more and creating a stable! In the time you spent writing this thread alone, you could have had one more number! Until you realise this and grab your balls and do it, you will always be stuck on sosuave wishing you could be like that guy you see down the street with a honey!
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