"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how many people here are gonna be negative and sad on valentines day
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what kind of thread is THIS? *sigh*
Anyways... V-day is another day, much like any other day of the year... so asking this is just like asking " So who is gonna be sad and pissed off tomorrow" .... The answer... we dont know.
Laterz...
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I will be 'cos there's a good chance I may be guilt tripped into taking someone out.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
Valentines Day is a day where love is reunited, giving and taking is again relieved and its an excuse to find love or to find a partner. Its just like Human Rights Day or Independence day on those days we celebrate the rights of us as humans on earth and independence day we celebrate our independence as a country (USA). So valentines day we celebrate our love for our partner or we celebrate the concept of love as a whole. Yes, it may be just another day but its a GREAT EXCUSE to find someone in your life and its also a proven fact that during this period from 10th february to 14th, the girls are more open to you because all girls want to be loved and want to be kissed, im telling you now no girl wants to be alone on valentines day. So in that context aequitas is correct that it is just another day, but a SPECIAL day(dont forget that). Valentines day is here to stay, its not going, it wont be done away with, so why fight it? Rather, get used to it, and use it to our DON JUAN advantage by meeting girls, getting presents and finding a partner to love.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
diablo
Master Don Juan
By the way, Anything Else... and a last thing... this thread is probably one of the most pessimistic I've come across in a while. I mean, come on people!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Ben
However, it turned out really well. One of the best I can remember in fact.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I had 4 girls I could have asked out for valentines day! But of course, I had to take my girflriend. You need to be approaching more and creating a stable! In the time you spent writing this thread alone, you could have had one more number! Until you realise this and grab your balls and do it, you will always be stuck on sosuave wishing you could be like that guy you see down the street with a honey!
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